- Joined
- Feb 1, 2006
Somehow I've always thought that there was an inherent homophobia in the idea that it is okay to wonder who a straight guy is dating but it is not okay to wonder if a guy is straight. By saying that we shouldn't wonder who Johnny sleeps with because it is his business and then asking if Evan is still dating Jenny aren't you implying that Johnny, unlike Evan, has something to hide? That's the way I have always seen it. I think that if you are going to acknowledge it as ok to discuss the romantic life of a man dating a woman than it is just as ok to discuss the romantic life of a man dating a man. I never saw the difference between wondering if Bob was dating Sue or if Bob was dating Joe.