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- Mar 14, 2006
Are you saying it's fine to spread falsehoods as long as the intention is benign or as long as one is a fan?I can certainly understand why people repeat suppositions about skaters. We're all so eager to find out how they're doing, especially when previously promising skaters seems to be going through hard times, that we seize on information that sounds knowledgeable. While I know there are posters out there who are malicious, I'm fairly sure that people in this conversation are genuinely puzzled or outright worried about Caroline and want to see her improve.
Unfortunately in this kind of gossip, something that might or might not have been a grain of truth - after all, some "reports" originate in mere hearsay, opinion, or even envy or malice - gets embroidered in the repetition and is canonized even as its remoteness from objective truth grows. People stop talking about it as a rumor and keep it going as a fact.
It's not as if there's no malice in the skating world, or among fans. :sheesh: We're all very human, AFAIK.
It's one thing to make logical deductions about someone's skating -- e.g., she has bad habits at 17, she had the same bad habits at 14, ergo a responsible person - her coaches or herself - is reprehensibly allowing those habits to continue. It's another thing to spread undocumented rumors, most of which are quite negative.
IMO folks should stick to giving their own opinions and giving some sort of substantiation for the stories they tell. It would be better to say, "Skater X was spotted eating a cookie by a friend of a friend of a friend who visited her rink last year" than "Skater X is reportedly addicted to sweets." Of course it sounds a bit silly.... hwell: