I mean, seriously, there is an adjustment period they will all have to go through. The physics change as you grow and fill out. It's something you deal with- and some handle it better than others- but it's hardly a "home wrecker" or "worst nightmare"...IT'S PART OF THE PROCESS
It's those who don't prepare for it, or don't think it will happen, that get hit the hardest.
It's those who don't prepare for it, or don't think it will happen, that get hit the hardest.