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The Skating Lesson - Hating on the Shibs and Davis/White as people

WeakAnkles

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I'm sorry, but asking tough questions is NOT unprofessional. Also, they've never cut anyone off if they've given a response they disagree with, and if you're referring to Scott Hamilton... he deserved it, that answer was terrible AND he has a history of these things. However, if you're talking about other questions, by all means, give me examples and I'll go rewatch and judge for myself.

Actually I thought they let Scott Hamilton off the hook. If it were me I would have absolutely asked Hamilton flat out, Did SOI refuse to hire Johnny Weir because he is an out homosexual?
 

Mrs. P

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There's nothing wrong with constructive criticism. I just don't agree with the way they give it. What is wrong with expressing that opinion? I do think Dave's comments to Meryl were quite cruel.

I suppose people wouldn't listen if Dave simply said. "Oh I thought Meryl's answer was contrived." Heck, when I first watched the video, that thought came across my mind when I saw the YouTube video.

However, was it absolutely necessary for Dave to mock her? To call her unlikeable?

For the record, I didn't really have a problem with what they said about the Shibs, and I'm a big Shibs fan. I think it was a bit much to declare their FD a "big mistake" when they have yet to debut the program, but other than that, I though the comments was fine.

Finally, I have received my fair share of criticism in life. I was not raised by parents who were the helicopter type. My mother had no qualms to be honest when I was not living up to my potential. Is it necessary to bring people's upbringing into this?
 

LiamForeman

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The fact that you can't see that you are doing the same thing you accuse them of... or that you think it is ok, is telling.

I'm sorry, but Cohen DID crumble under pressure. REPEATEDLY. The fact that she never won a world championship, and only ONE nationals, is telling.

"Attention Whores and Social Rejects?" Really? They're putting out content online. It's the new wave of journalism, and they're doing it quite well for being a home-spun operation. Looking at Dave's personal Facebook, it seems like he's pretty good on friends. You're the one who is making personal attacks and hiding behind a screen name. I tweet regularly to them, on my real name, and post regularly on their Facebook, with my real name. I'm not hiding anything. Also, I'm pretty sure Dave has a job outside of the TSL stuff, so that "amounts to nothing" is, yet again, baseless drivel. Congrats.

I don't have blind loyalty. I find their content enjoyable, and as such, I will defend it against people making personal attacks. You obviously have some prejudice for Dave based on the AJ blog. Maybe you should deal with and realize that before painting everything he's doing now with a broad brush. The fact that you can't find the nuance in their criticisms says more about you than them.

The fact that most people on these boards don't understand that you can hold multiple opinions about people at the same time is: 1) Sad and 2) Telling.

I was about to respond to that same post, and I basically was just going to repeat this. So 'ditto'.

Also, anyone who personally attacks Dave has most likely never met him. He's one of the nicest guys you could know. He just has opinions, but believe me if he felt he was personally hurting someone he'd stop. It's just a difference in cultures I guess. On a scale of 1 to 10 for being a friend, Dave is at least a 9. Always there, compassionate. Just because he goes off on some Meryl idiocy doesn't make him evil. Meryl did sound like an idiot. And frankly I think her remarks and comments DID make her seem unlikeable. Next week with some training maybe she'll get on track to a more likeable persona. Oh well, it seems like the haterade for TSL is flowing hard today. Just stop the personal attacks. I don't know Jenny, but I do know Dave (though not well) and he is very funny and very kind and very compassionate.
 

Whitneyskates

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Thank you zschultz. I'm trying to figure out WHAT THE HELL they said to provoke this hysteria. Yeah, they were tough on Meryl this week. Big deal, they love Meryl, but she did sound like an idiot.

My hysteria comes from the fact that Dave went off on her, made fun of her voice, and called her an idiot because when asked what music she's always wanted to skate to, she answered that their FD music is the music she's always wanted to skate to. His immature little rant was because Meryl didn't give an answer that he approved.

Just stop the personal attacks.
Is calling someone an idiot not a personal attack in your world?
 

zschultz1986

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There's nothing wrong with constructive criticism. I just don't agree with the way they give it. What is wrong with expressing that opinion? I do think Dave's comments to Meryl were quite cruel.

I suppose people wouldn't listen if Dave simply said. "Oh I thought Meryl's answer was contrived." Heck, when I first watched the video, that thought came across my mind when I saw the YouTube video.

However, was it absolutely necessary for Dave to mock her? To call her unlikeable?

For the record, I didn't really have a problem with what they said about the Shibs, and I'm a big Shibs fan. I think it was a bit much to declare something a "big mistake" when they have yet to debut the program, but other than that, I though the comments was fine.

Finally, I have received my fair share of criticism in life. I was not raised by parents who were the helicopter type. My mother had no qualms to be honest when I was not living up to my potential. I had to work at age 14.

Your comments are fine, I didn't see you personally attacking them. I saw you giving your criticisms or their criticisms, which is completely fair game. Dave is/can be "over-the-top" which is something I can relate to, as I am the same way about things I have strong opinions about.

However, I find some people in this thread who are doing the same things they say Dave/Jenny are doing... very sad people.
 

zschultz1986

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Is calling someone an idiot not a personal attack in your world?

See, the mocking was a bit much, I can agree with that. However, he didn't call her an idiot. He said she came off as an idiot, based on her answers. I know it may be a very slight difference, but it IS a difference. Maybe it was said in the emotion of talking about it, but I don't believe he was talking about her personally as a whole, but in response to the persona she gives off and the answers she gave.
 

WeakAnkles

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Thank you zschultz. I'm trying to figure out WHAT THE HELL they said to provoke this hysteria. Yeah, they were tough on Meryl this week. Big deal, they love Meryl, but she did sound like an idiot. Next week they will love on her. I prefer this kind of commentary. It isn't biased, it's very opinionated for sure. But I'm tired of 'the rules' for narrators. If someone stinks, say it. It might make them change or tweak their programs. I think too many here grew up with helicopter moms who fought against any perceived slight against their precious ones. Many people grew up with constructive criticism, and guess what we earned degrees, masters, doctorates, made it to the top echelons of our fields or sports. Many of us want to hear it. The Shibs? I didn't even think they were harsh on them. In fact, I didn't really hear a harsh thing at all. And also, this was their op-ed so let them say what they want. I agreed with most of it. The level of vitriol to TSL is amusing. Just don't watch it if it makes your blood boil to hysteria. Problem solved. I will say that after a year and a half of IJS boredom and coma, that Jenny and Dave got me interested again in skating. So thank you Jenny and Dave, you are doing a great job.

I used to be in a poetry group where we had very similar arguments. There was a small group of extremely vocal people who thought ANY criticism was a personal attack on an individual and that "nice" was the cardinal virtue. What eventually happened was that people who were serious about creating quality work, who WELCOMED straightforward criticism, got fed up and left. I went back recently and started reading the results. Oh, everyone was very "nice" to each other and seemed almost apologetic to offer ANY criticism that was not glowing praise. But the work itself was just mediocre. Some of it was just plain bad writing. But hey--it was all very "nice."

I am a big fan of both Voir and Marlie. But let's face it, as interview subjects Marlie are the equivalent of tapioca pudding. And I'm sure they are NOT like that in day-to-day life. But they are very savvy about playing the media game. And the media game is puff pieces and "inspirational" stories. And one big yawn. Is it any surprise that the single event that took figure skating from very popular to one of the most popular sports in the west was the Whack Attack on Nancy Kerrigan? And that once figure skating went back to nothing but puff pieces and "inspirational" stories and prizes! prizes for everyone! every week! it killed off that popularity? Give me a Scott Moir at his loose cannon best any day. He may infuriate the hell out of you, but you know he is not going to hide behind puffery and media gameplaying. In fact, I would LOVE if he and Tessa go on TSL after they retire. And then all four of them just let it rip.

One thing you can say for Dave and Jenny--you'll never be bored. But people tend to forget just how acerbic dear Uncle Dick Button could be. If I remember correctly, he once compared Surya Bonaly's free leg in a spin to a sausage. Lord knows the weeks of vitriolic hysteria that comment would provoke on skating boards if it were made now. And the thing is, Uncle Dick was right (but then he usually was).
 

leafygreens

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See, the mocking was a bit much, I can agree with that. However, he didn't call her an idiot. He said she came off as an idiot, based on her answers. I know it may be a very slight difference, but it IS a difference. Maybe it was said in the emotion of talking about it, but I don't believe he was talking about her personally as a whole, but in response to the persona she gives off and the answers she gave.

I vote that "you're an idiot" and "you came off as an idiot" are the same thing.

Let's see if TSL ever gets their media passes now.
 

leafygreens

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The fact that you can't see that you are doing the same thing you accuse them of... or that you think it is ok, is telling.

I'm sorry, but Cohen DID crumble under pressure. REPEATEDLY. The fact that she never won a world championship and only ONE nationals is telling.

I'm just as frustrated as anyone that Cohen didn't perform perfectly in the big ones, but put it in perspective - she had to beat Kwan for almost her entire career. Don't forget that Alissa and Ashley have won more nationals, but one of each of their nationals had falls and mistakes. It's no worse than what Sasha did, only they had the luxury of not having to compete against Kwan. I think Cohen should have stuck around 1-2 more years and easily won nationals again, but I understand why she didn't.
 

dorispulaski

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My hysteria comes from the fact that Dave went off on her, made fun of her voice, and called her an idiot because when asked what music she's always wanted to skate to, she answered that their FD music is the music she's always wanted to skate to. His immature little rant was because Meryl didn't give an answer that he approved.

Considering that in previous interviews about Scheherazade, Marina, Meryl & Charlie have said that the team has been working and preparing to skate this program for 2 or 3 years now, including working on the first lift for several years, it certainly sounds like Shez was really the music Meryl most wanted to skate to. After all "Phantom", their last Olympic program, was the music Charlie always wanted to skate to. I suspect it was Meryl's turn this time.

I wish Dave & Jenny would separate their op/ed stuff from their competition reviews. Instead of This & That, have a video of this week's competition comments as "This" and comments on other stuff & op/ed pieces as a video called "That".

It's their blog, and they're entitled to say what they like on it. However, if they separated sports commentary from editorializing, I don't think they would come in for as much criticism. After all, those that wanted to skip the op ed page could easily do so. It's the fact that they're mixing their front page with their op ed page, and only think they should have professional standards on interviews that I find puzzling.
 

CassAgain

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I agreed with a lot of Dave's criticism of Davis's and particularly White's answers to the Russian anti-gay laws questions at the media summit. But he lost me when he resorted to mocking Meryl's voice. I think Meryl and Charlie are often overly cautious in their interviews, and I can understand why that's frustrating to members of the media and also to fans. We do see glimmers of their real personalities sometimes--especially their fierceness and drive on the ice, and I wish they would let that show off the ice a bit more. They seem to put a lot of pressure on themselves to be perfect at all times, which is unobtainable.
 
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I found it interesting that although David Leach picked on Meryl Davis at the beginning of the piece, when it came time to talk about skating he came down hard on Virtue and Moir. Leach pointed out many little flaws and a lack of crispness and precision in V&M's recent performances, suggesting that they are not training as hard as they should, perhaps because of Tessa's injuries.

As for Alex and Maia Shibutani, in the October 6th This and That piece the criticism was mainly in comparison with Chock and Bates. Jenny "couldn't take her eyes off Madison Chock" (neither could I :) ). In contrast, the Shibutani's have not been able to shed their cute brother and sister vibe, and choosing to go with Michael Jackson in their quest for an Olympic medal is "a big mistake." I agree, they need a theme with more substance.
 
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ManyCairns

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I think Doris's point is great that they should separate the commentary and skating critique from the op/ed more. Because like Mathman, I was listening to all the substantive comments by Lease (not Leach) about the skating technique and presentation of, e.g., D/W and V/M, and he said so many complimentary as well as substantive things about D/W's programs this year vs. V/M's (and said many good things about V/M's skating, too, of course). So they are capable of separating the reacting to personalities and characters from good, substantive sports commentary -- so great idea to have "THIS" and "THAT" be entirely separate podcasts and make it clearly stated which is reflective evaluation of the skating and which is dishing dirt.

ETA: Also agree with zschultz1986 that he actually called the remarks idiotic, not the person -- which truly is a critical distinction. Though the overall tone of the remarks was mocking, indeed -- of Meryl's comments in that setting.
 

BlackPack

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The fact that you can't see that you are doing the same thing you accuse them of... or that you think it is ok, is telling.

I'm sorry, but Cohen DID crumble under pressure. REPEATEDLY. The fact that she never won a world championship, and only ONE nationals, is telling.

"Attention Whores and Social Rejects?" Really? They're putting out content online. It's the new wave of journalism, and they're doing it quite well for being a home-spun operation. Looking at Dave's personal Facebook, it seems like he's pretty good on friends. You're the one who is making personal attacks and hiding behind a screen name. I tweet regularly to them, on my real name, and post regularly on their Facebook, with my real name. I'm not hiding anything. Also, I'm pretty sure Dave has a job outside of the TSL stuff, so that "amounts to nothing" is, yet again, baseless drivel. Congrats.

I don't have blind loyalty. I find their content enjoyable, and as such, I will defend it against people making personal attacks. You obviously have some prejudice for Dave based on the AJ blog. Maybe you should deal with and realize that before painting everything he's doing now with a broad brush. The fact that you can't find the nuance in their criticisms says more about you than them.

The fact that most people on these boards don't understand that you can hold multiple opinions about people at the same time is: 1) Sad and 2) Telling.

Well isn't that the very definition of the pot calling the kettle black. But at least Mr Lease isn't doing it from behind the relative safety of a screen name.

Oh, I missed the memo that I must post my real life identity to have an opinion on a public anonymous forum. Just about every poster here is hiding behind a nick. I don't think the Mods will want it any differently. The difference is I'm not trying to be a journalist to be hired by major networks and be given perks by USFA.

Facebook "friends" doesn't prove whether a person has actual, real-life friends. It's a joke. Anyone can have hundreds/thousands of Facebook "friends." The new generation seems to be unable to distinguish real friendship from social media appearances.

I enjoyed TSL's interviews earlier this year. I thought they did a fine job. I stopped watching due to reasons already mentioned by many others. TSL's comments still end up being mentioned by various members when discussing various topics. So I go watch what they really said, and it's often far worse than what others have criticized.

If TSL behaved like BBC's Chris, Simon, or Nicky, people would be fine with it. The BBC guys don't sugarcoat things or shy away from constructive criticism. That is real journalism. Their style is nuanced. Calling TSL nuanced is naivete.

This "new wave" Youtube/Vimeo personal "editorials" and blogging doesn't qualify as real journalism. Real journalism requires at least playing by the rules. They somewhat play the rules in their "real" interview segments and turn around to mock the same guests on another segment, which according to you that "thick skulls" don't get, is the vision of the future. They are essentially destroying the very social networking they need to succeed.

It sounds that Lease likes to pretend to be your friend to your face and do/say something different behind your back. Try and see if this is true or not. If I'm wrong, then I stand corrected.

Everyone knows that Cohen has crumbled under pressure and had all the potential in the world to win OGM and multiple Worlds. But she was still far more successful than many skaters and average people and certainly far more accomplished than Kirk or Lease. Again people will bring up "free speech" and that they have every right to say what they think in any style they prefer - in theory yes. But they're aiming for sky-high success as journalists/commentators in the figure skating world. That is a much trickier hierarchy to conquer and offending people left and right isn't going to get them there.
 

lcd

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I found it interesting that although David Leach picked on Meryl Davis at the beginning of the piece, when it came time to talk about skating he came down hard on Virtue and Moir. Leach pointed out many little flaws and a lack of crispness and precision in V&M's recent performances, suggesting that they are not training as hard as they should, perhaps because of Tessa's injuries.

As for Alex and Maia Shibutani, in the October 6th This and That piece the criticism was mainly in comparison with Chock and Bates. Jenny "couldn't take her eyes off Madison Chock" (neither could I :) ). In contrast, the Shibutani's have not been able to shed their cute brother and sister vibe, and choosing to go with Michael Jackson in their quest for an Olympic medal is "a big mistake." I agree, they need a theme with more substance.

The real trashing of the Shibs was in the prior week's This and That. They insinuated that Alex was not really injured and because they skated at a Skate America promo event 2 weeks after Salt Lake that they had lied about the reason for withdrawing. They also implied that money has been inappropriately involved with their being on the US worlds teams which could be interpreted that they are corrupt. Lease also claimed that "a lot of people" think the Shibs don't deserve the marks that they get.

The first issue make me wonder how they can make such character attacking accusations when they admit that they don't know them. The second accusation attacks them and their family. I'm sure the family has put a lot of money into supporting them in this sport, as all of the top skaters have had to do. Suggesting that there is something corrupt is really grotesque.

The final comment about their scores is actually really hard for me to find evidence of. When Alex made a mistake with his twizzles at Worlds in Nice, they took a big hit, scoring almost 15 points lower than they did at Four Continents just a month before. (Twizzles are worth around 6-7 points). When Alex was hurt and stopped their free dance at Cup of Russia, they again were docked, while we have seen programs stopped by other competitors which still resulted in season's best scores. When were the scores too high and undeserved?

In the Oct 6 This and That, they are making sure everyone finds their look childish and their programs a "giant mistake" before they even skate a single program.
I actually don't think it has anything to do with their comments about Madison Chock. It was simply during their comments on ice dancer.

The bashing is separate and specific. Expecting we'll know what they'll dish out when the Shibs actually skate.
 

pangtongfan

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I'm sorry, but Cohen DID crumble under pressure. REPEATEDLY. The fact that she never won a world championship, and only ONE nationals, is telling.

Unlike the great Jenny Kirk who won bronze at Nationals a whole once, and placed an amazing 15th as her career best at Worlds. Jenny could personally teach worthless 4 time World and Olympic medalist and 5 time U.S gold or silver medalist all about "handling pressure". She was the queen of it.
 

Mrs. P

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The real trashing of the Shibs was in the prior week's This and That. They insinuated that Alex was not really injured and because they skated at a Skate America promo event 2 weeks after Salt Lake that they had lied about the reason for withdrawing. They also implied that money has been inappropriately involved with their being on the US worlds teams which could be interpreted that they are corrupt. Lease also claimed that "a lot of people" think the Shibs don't deserve the marks that they get.

The first issue make me wonder how they can make such character attacking accusations when they admit that they don't know them. The second accusation attacks them and their family. I'm sure the family has put a lot of money into supporting them in this sport, as all of the top skaters have had to do. Suggesting that there is something corrupt is really grotesque.

The final comment about their scores is actually really hard for me to find evidence of. When Alex made a mistake with his twizzles at Worlds in Nice, they took a big hit, scoring almost 15 points lower than they did at Four Continents just a month before. (Twizzles are worth around 6-7 points). When Alex was hurt and stopped their free dance at Cup of Russia, they again were docked, while we have seen programs stopped by other competitors which still resulted in season's best scores. When were the scores too high and undeserved?

In the Oct 6 This and That, they are making sure everyone finds their look childish and their programs a "giant mistake" before they even skate a single program.
I actually don't think it has anything to do with their comments about Madison Chock. It was simply during their comments on ice dancer.

The bashing is separate and specific. Expecting we'll know what they'll dish out when the Shibs actually skate.

Well the bashing of the Shibs, however, isn't limited to them. They've had a target on their back since they won bronze in 2011.Still, those comments are definitely in poor taste. But the Shibs need not worry. The people who know them, including other skaters and officials, don't question their integrity. No need to spend a minute listening or even acknowledging that drivel.

That said, they haven't bothered to acknowledge/realize that Alex has been saddled with injures over the last two years and that Maia has gone through a major spurt over the same period (it could be the growth spurt may have caused the injury). Hard to do a whole lot when you're not training at 100 percent. So them deciding to withdraw at SLC with a tweaked neck didn't surprise me in the least. After going through all those injuries over the years, I wouldn't blame them for wanting to take precaution.
 
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Then don't go to a media summit. It wasn't a personal question, it's about a relevant World issue. Meryl&Charlie's Olympic teammates can be put in prison in Russia, if they are seen "doing something gay". How do they feel about that? Give a real answer or don't attend to begin with.

If I'm not mistaken, wasn't this a media summit for Olympic contenders? Meryl and Charlie are Olympic medalists and world champions who stand a good chance of being on the podium in the coming Olympics. Are they somehow unsuitable attendees for this event? I'm sure Dave and Jenny have a right to be there, or they would have been turned away at the door, but do they have a greater right to be there than Meryl and Charlie?

One thing that Dave and Jenny might consider is the urgency of their mission. I'm now talking of their worry about the Putin law, which I assume will be more important to them than their own prestige in the media world. If they really want to bring about change, might it not be more effective of them to engage people rather than condemning those they perceive to be lukewarm? Consider the perceptions about gay marriage in this country. Change began because a few stalwart souls spoke up. But it accelerated recently because public opinion shifted. The majority of Americans, especially young people, now either agree with gay marriage or don't see what the fuss is all about. If David Lease wants to get public opinion on his side in this issue, he shouldn't be making the issue too hot to handle. He should be making it cool. Poking fun at a nice young skater will not gain him any adherents for his cause. Righteous wrath is tremendously satisfying to the person feeling the wrath, but it often generates more heat than light on a subject.
 

dorispulaski

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For that matter, Dave could watch the Classroom Champs episodes and discover that Meryl & Charlie have been working with kids in one of their classrooms on an anti-bullying campaign, something that may do more good for gay kids in the US ultimately than a one-time mouthing off about Putin & Russia.
 

Scrufflet

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I used to be in a poetry group where we had very similar arguments. There was a small group of extremely vocal people who thought ANY criticism was a personal attack on an individual and that "nice" was the cardinal virtue. What eventually happened was that people who were serious about creating quality work, who WELCOMED straightforward criticism, got fed up and left. I went back recently and started reading the results. Oh, everyone was very "nice" to each other and seemed almost apologetic to offer ANY criticism that was not glowing praise. But the work itself was just mediocre. Some of it was just plain bad writing. But hey--it was all very "nice."

I am a big fan of both Voir and Marlie. But let's face it, as interview subjects Marlie are the equivalent of tapioca pudding. And I'm sure they are NOT like that in day-to-day life. But they are very savvy about playing the media game. And the media game is puff pieces and "inspirational" stories. And one big yawn. Is it any surprise that the single event that took figure skating from very popular to one of the most popular sports in the west was the Whack Attack on Nancy Kerrigan? And that once figure skating went back to nothing but puff pieces and "inspirational" stories and prizes! prizes for everyone! every week! it killed off that popularity? Give me a Scott Moir at his loose cannon best any day. He may infuriate the hell out of you, but you know he is not going to hide behind puffery and media gameplaying. In fact, I would LOVE if he and Tessa go on TSL after they retire. And then all four of them just let it rip.

One thing you can say for Dave and Jenny--you'll never be bored. But people tend to forget just how acerbic dear Uncle Dick Button could be. If I remember correctly, he once compared Surya Bonaly's free leg in a spin to a sausage. Lord knows the weeks of vitriolic hysteria that comment would provoke on skating boards if it were made now. And the thing is, Uncle Dick was right (but then he usually was).

Excellent points here! I too, remember Dick Button saying watching Angela Nikidinov skate was about as interesting as watching paint dry. I cringed at the time but he was right. And then she changed into a really watchable skater and he gave her credit.
Haven't watched TSL since the early ones and now I don't want to, given what I've read here. Awfully fond of the Shibs and Davis/White. And I hate to see skaters pressured into an either/or position re the gay issue in Sochi. I'm glad some step forward and take a stance but when skaters who don't want to do so succumb to pressure, they tend to react with negative, uninformed opinions. They're athletes, not philosophers and I can understand their focus needs to be on their sport. And I do hope a lot of them show support for gay athletes!
 
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