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- Jan 12, 2014
Today I learned an important lesson - I should always trust my gut instincts.
So this is what happened yesterday. I had an unexpected expense and needed to come up with funds by next week. I looked around the house/garage to see what I could sell to help cover the expense. See, I'm not much of a "sales" person, never comfortable with haggling. So I figured I'd check what similar items are selling for, then lower it by 15-20% to make the listing more appealing. Priced to sell, not priced to sit in the garage for weeks.
I put a high-ticket item up for sale on Craigslist, and by that I meant the equipment cost $2000 new. I checked ebay's current and past listings, and these things usually go for $1000-1500 used. I posted mine for $800. (Yes, I can hear your collective face palms :hopelessness:, and I deserved all of it!) It's Christmas season, everyone is strapped for cash - that was my thinking. I also wasn't smart enough or have the time to put out a "feeler" ad to see what people are willing to pay. In another words, I low-balled myself.
That's not even the worst part.
I was surprised how quickly I got an email response. {red flag #1?} It took me longer to make the listing (picture taking and editing/formatting, spec-checking etc). The woman offered me $600. She didn't even ask about the condition of the item or any questions that one would expect. {red flag #2?} I discussed it with DH - do we wanted to sell it to her for $700? (see, I told you I suck at haggling!)... I wanted to say no, and wait for other offers, but he felt a bird in hand is better than two in the bush. (apparently he sucks too! ) So alright, we agreed to the $700 price and the woman said she will come at 7pm after rush hour subsided.
Gut feeling commenced. It was around noon at the time, and I hadn't had lunch yet.
An hour later, I got another email inquiry. I told the guy while technically the item hasn't sold yet, but someone else said they are coming for it tonight. The guy wrote back and said he's been looking for this model for over a year, and will offer $850 and come pick it up ASAP. My heart sank. Told DH I want to cancel the sale with the woman, and sell it to the second guy instead. DH said while it sucks we're losing out on the $150, it's wrong to back out of an agreement. Apparently I married Ned Flanders, if Ned Flanders use swear words. While I get his PoV, I don't think it's morally wrong to back out of the sale? After all, item is not sold until cash is in my hand and item leaves my property. Right?
Had to tell the second guy again, I wish he had contacted me first, but I'm trying to do the right thing even if it meant I'm losing out on extra money. Boy this guy is persistent, he wrote back and said if the woman isn't matching his offer, I shouldn't sell it to her.
Gut feeling continued to grow. It's now 3pm. Lunch and my stomach seem to be having a disagreement.
This whole time I never told the woman about the other guy's offer. Big mistake? I think a little part of me wonder if those two are working as a team. You know how it goes, going back to the 1st guy after the 2nd guy flakes, and now 1st guy offering less than before.
7pm, no show. 7:30pm, still no show. 7:45pm, she contacted me saying traffic is horrible and she's about 20 minutes away. Very annoyed.
8:10pm. Finally I saw a truck coming. And whoever is driving backed their truck into my driveway! WHO THE *bleep* DOES THAT?!!
I opened the garage, and there was a guy. I thought I was dealing with a woman? This has to be the weirdest and unfriendliest person I've ever dealt with on CL, buy or sell. I tried to say hi, but he just cut me off saying he's here to pick up the item. I said, ok here it is. He looked around my garage then grabbed his phone. Well, the woman on the other end sure sounds like the one I've been dealing with. He told her he's at X place for Y item, and to confirm the price. He gave me the cash, and I asked: "You don't want to test things out first?" He declined. {red flag red flag red flag!} I asked if he needed DH's help to load it into his truck, he didn't say anything, and started to load the equipment.
My stomach is at my throat. These guys has got to be flippers. But I had to count the cash before he leaves, and count it twice more because this fella is a serious ball of bad vibe. He haphazardly place the equipment in his truck, scratched my garage door on the way out. (it's a tall item, which is why I asked if he needed help loading!)
My gut is telling me to tell the guy the sale is off. My gut is screaming at me to give back the money and tell him to unload the equipment. My gut is pleading at me to give the guy $20 gas money and to gtfo my house.
My gut is extremely disappointed with my lack of gumption.
Today they posted the equipment on ebay for $1599.
*** MORAL OF THE STORY: Never accept the first offer no matter how desperate, and always ALWAYS trust your gut instincts. ***
So this is what happened yesterday. I had an unexpected expense and needed to come up with funds by next week. I looked around the house/garage to see what I could sell to help cover the expense. See, I'm not much of a "sales" person, never comfortable with haggling. So I figured I'd check what similar items are selling for, then lower it by 15-20% to make the listing more appealing. Priced to sell, not priced to sit in the garage for weeks.
I put a high-ticket item up for sale on Craigslist, and by that I meant the equipment cost $2000 new. I checked ebay's current and past listings, and these things usually go for $1000-1500 used. I posted mine for $800. (Yes, I can hear your collective face palms :hopelessness:, and I deserved all of it!) It's Christmas season, everyone is strapped for cash - that was my thinking. I also wasn't smart enough or have the time to put out a "feeler" ad to see what people are willing to pay. In another words, I low-balled myself.
That's not even the worst part.
I was surprised how quickly I got an email response. {red flag #1?} It took me longer to make the listing (picture taking and editing/formatting, spec-checking etc). The woman offered me $600. She didn't even ask about the condition of the item or any questions that one would expect. {red flag #2?} I discussed it with DH - do we wanted to sell it to her for $700? (see, I told you I suck at haggling!)... I wanted to say no, and wait for other offers, but he felt a bird in hand is better than two in the bush. (apparently he sucks too! ) So alright, we agreed to the $700 price and the woman said she will come at 7pm after rush hour subsided.
Gut feeling commenced. It was around noon at the time, and I hadn't had lunch yet.
An hour later, I got another email inquiry. I told the guy while technically the item hasn't sold yet, but someone else said they are coming for it tonight. The guy wrote back and said he's been looking for this model for over a year, and will offer $850 and come pick it up ASAP. My heart sank. Told DH I want to cancel the sale with the woman, and sell it to the second guy instead. DH said while it sucks we're losing out on the $150, it's wrong to back out of an agreement. Apparently I married Ned Flanders, if Ned Flanders use swear words. While I get his PoV, I don't think it's morally wrong to back out of the sale? After all, item is not sold until cash is in my hand and item leaves my property. Right?
Had to tell the second guy again, I wish he had contacted me first, but I'm trying to do the right thing even if it meant I'm losing out on extra money. Boy this guy is persistent, he wrote back and said if the woman isn't matching his offer, I shouldn't sell it to her.
Gut feeling continued to grow. It's now 3pm. Lunch and my stomach seem to be having a disagreement.
This whole time I never told the woman about the other guy's offer. Big mistake? I think a little part of me wonder if those two are working as a team. You know how it goes, going back to the 1st guy after the 2nd guy flakes, and now 1st guy offering less than before.
7pm, no show. 7:30pm, still no show. 7:45pm, she contacted me saying traffic is horrible and she's about 20 minutes away. Very annoyed.
8:10pm. Finally I saw a truck coming. And whoever is driving backed their truck into my driveway! WHO THE *bleep* DOES THAT?!!
I opened the garage, and there was a guy. I thought I was dealing with a woman? This has to be the weirdest and unfriendliest person I've ever dealt with on CL, buy or sell. I tried to say hi, but he just cut me off saying he's here to pick up the item. I said, ok here it is. He looked around my garage then grabbed his phone. Well, the woman on the other end sure sounds like the one I've been dealing with. He told her he's at X place for Y item, and to confirm the price. He gave me the cash, and I asked: "You don't want to test things out first?" He declined. {red flag red flag red flag!} I asked if he needed DH's help to load it into his truck, he didn't say anything, and started to load the equipment.
My stomach is at my throat. These guys has got to be flippers. But I had to count the cash before he leaves, and count it twice more because this fella is a serious ball of bad vibe. He haphazardly place the equipment in his truck, scratched my garage door on the way out. (it's a tall item, which is why I asked if he needed help loading!)
My gut is telling me to tell the guy the sale is off. My gut is screaming at me to give back the money and tell him to unload the equipment. My gut is pleading at me to give the guy $20 gas money and to gtfo my house.
My gut is extremely disappointed with my lack of gumption.
Today they posted the equipment on ebay for $1599.
*** MORAL OF THE STORY: Never accept the first offer no matter how desperate, and always ALWAYS trust your gut instincts. ***