I understand what you're saying here, but if someone close to the bride and groom has a freshly baked bun, they would probably exressly invite the bun too -- or else they really don't want a baby at their wedding. Either way, the bride & groom's wishes are tantamount.Longhornliz said:I think babies are a little bit of a different story, especially fresh from the oven ones. Often couples would not leave their newborns with a sitter and wouldnt be able to attend the wedding at all.... so in circumstances where they are very close the bride or groom you would think that they would prefer to have them their with the baby than not at all.