Daughter just turned 10 and has been skating with her coach for 3 years. My wife and I have had some concerns with the coaches track record of his skaters quitting before the age of 14. He's seems very successful, sells a good story and has brought a few skaters to nationals. Unsolicited, we were recently were approached by 4 coaches, a past national skater of his, and the choreographer in her club expressing their concerns of verbal and mental abuse of his skaters. One of these people was his coaching partner. It felt like an intervention. They told us that he has ran many gifted skaters into the ground and out of the rink. They had serious concerns that my daughter would be the next casualty in a few years and we should seriously consider changing coaches. My daughter absolutely loves him and would be heart broken if we change. My daughters progression has been great but my wife has noticed some of this behavior over the past couple years. She thinks it would be the best if we move on to another coach. Me I'm not sure, but then again I'm just there to write the checks. Is this a poaching attempt of a well paying customer? How do I explain this to my daughter? Anyone go through something like this?