As I said I understand you, but you are not the only one who has or could have similar concerns. We are all posting on the same forum, and your situation is no different from many other poster's situation. I too have had difficulties with expressing myself in direct and forward way on this and the FSUniverse forum, but I have understood that there is no reason to be vague, because if you are vague people can interpret what you are saying in different ways. And, believe me, they will interpret it in any way that suits them. If you are direct, then at least there is less possibility for misunderstandings and incorrect interpretations. Plus, unless you want to make virtual friends with people on these forums and/or be liked or loved by everyone, you have no reason to fear anything. If you are direct in your way of expressing yourself you will very likely get some harsh responses, but no one here can truly harm you like in real life.
By the way, this was not a lecture, but an advice. I don't always exactly follow it myself, but I at least try.
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