Granted I don't live in China right now and perhaps that's why those words affected me but I said it as someone who is Chinese. Considering the state of current affairs where there's been an increase in casual and outright racism towards Asian people (Chinese in particular), I find it in bad taste to criticise a Chinese person skating to traditional Chinese music for being "cheesy".
Thanks @readernick for helping to clarify my stance. Maybe I should have stated my ethnicity from the beginning, given the current political climate.I believe the person who said that is also of Chinese descent. So, I don't think we can label that as racism. Although, I'm not sure calling something "cheesy" is ever particularly racist. Every culture has "cheesy" music. But, of course, I understand why you would be particularly sensitive right now.
I'm proud of my own heritage, acutely aware of anti-Chinese/East Asian discrimination and appreciative of the symbolism in Karen's music choice. I was just overexposed to Butterfly Lovers throughout my childhood/adolescence. It's not unpleasant, but it makes me mentally disengage. There is nary an Olympic cycle when a Chinese pair doesn't skate to either Butterfly Lovers, Mo Li Hua or Turandot (the latter having become sort of reappropriated...)
Here are a few alternatives:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zWY9tLkm7zg Kind of retro and Yunnan-specific, but includes some of my grandmum's favourite movie theme songs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pBOKeVsiJho Collection of 'classical' Chinese pieces (as opposed to folk songs or Western-influenced fusion genres)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=60hOVk4uud0 Popular repertoire among Chinese orchestras
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sfBosRFSrtA A traditional Shanxi folk song
Various wuxia film scores (not traditional but fun and lots to choose from)
Mandopop/Cantopop/Hokkien-pop
The Yellow River Concerto turns up occasionally in skating but it might have awkward nationalistic (PRC) overtones.