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- Aug 26, 2010
I don’t like people labeling a 16 year old boy’s skating as “girly”. The word implies disapproval and is offensive according to many dictionaries (e.g., http://www.thefreedictionary.com/girlie, http://www.answers.com/topic/girlie, http://dictionary.reverso.net/english-cobuild/girly). I however would not resort to Big Brother (forum moderators) who is best reserved to deal with something clearly out of line or with an obvious ill intent. A “slippery slope” may occur when Big Brother steps in and decides the propriety of every word. In my view, “law” (GS Forum Guidelines) is different from “culture”. Each forum has its own culture, mainly formed by posters’ expressions of likes and dislikes through debate. Although yelling “go back to your country” is not against the US law, it is culturally discouraged. Similarly, although labeling a skater “girly” does not violate Forum Guidelines (otherwise it would have been censored by the moderators by now), its cultural acceptability is yet to be determined by posters’ expressions of likes and dislikes, which serve as feedback for individual members to either continue to label others as such or to impose self-censorship on their own speech in the future.
Using the banner of “freedom of speech” to discourage my expression of dislike is a one-sided censorship, which infringes the fundamental value of freedom of speech, which twists the discussions into a political debate, and which serves to marginalize my position and push my dispute out of convenient sight. Without feedback, those who label others as such would never hear the opposition, and those who read their posts would assume it is socially acceptable to do so.
My principle is simple: I don't like an offensive word being attached to an underage child. I don't think I need further explanations for it.
Using the banner of “freedom of speech” to discourage my expression of dislike is a one-sided censorship, which infringes the fundamental value of freedom of speech, which twists the discussions into a political debate, and which serves to marginalize my position and push my dispute out of convenient sight. Without feedback, those who label others as such would never hear the opposition, and those who read their posts would assume it is socially acceptable to do so.
My principle is simple: I don't like an offensive word being attached to an underage child. I don't think I need further explanations for it.
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