My daughter occasionally works with a secondary coach for moves at the request of her primary. This secondary coach has a reputation for at times being out of line and immature (for a 30-something year old). She really ticked me off about a year ago with something she said to my daughter but I let it go although I did cut back on lessons with her. The other day she decided to work on spins to take a break from moves and after a combo spin she said to my daughter "that was awful, Anna does that far better than you and she's only 8 years old". (My daughter is 11). My gut and common sense tells me that this is completely wrong and grounds for ending any coaching by this woman but then I question if I'm overly sensitive. Is this typical in coaching figure skaters? To complicate things this coach is also one of her synchro team coach so it's not possible to completely cut ties. Any thoughts or advice appreciated!