We have an adult skating session with 2 coaches each supposedly dividing their time across all of the skaters. One of the coaches, who I have had private lessons with for a number of years, bought Christmas presents and other gifts for, etc. has suddenly decided they don't want to coach me, to the point they will work their way around the rink seeing people then when they see they are approaching me they veer off and return to another adult they already saw. This means that I don't get any coaching at all, yet I'm paying the same as everyone else.
I know most people say they haven't done anything so don't understand why in these situations. Well, I think I do know, and it's because I have developed a disability, which is something I can't change. Obviously I may be wrong, but this is the only reason I can think of, and the timing supports the assumption.
The way this coach has avoided me over the last few sessions is extremely obvious, and extremely upsetting. There are no other options for coaching at that rink and I've paid for the entire winter season. I'm trying to change my mindset to not expecting coaching, and just consider it as expensive ice time with no coaching available but it's making me think about quitting too.
We don't have a skate director, but I've messaged the club president to ask if they can ensure coaching time is allocated fairly across all participants, and I'm waiting for a response, but I don't want to get lessons from someone who has made it so blatantly obvious they don't want to coach me.
I just wondered if anyone had any similar experiences, and how they handled it.
I know most people say they haven't done anything so don't understand why in these situations. Well, I think I do know, and it's because I have developed a disability, which is something I can't change. Obviously I may be wrong, but this is the only reason I can think of, and the timing supports the assumption.
The way this coach has avoided me over the last few sessions is extremely obvious, and extremely upsetting. There are no other options for coaching at that rink and I've paid for the entire winter season. I'm trying to change my mindset to not expecting coaching, and just consider it as expensive ice time with no coaching available but it's making me think about quitting too.
We don't have a skate director, but I've messaged the club president to ask if they can ensure coaching time is allocated fairly across all participants, and I'm waiting for a response, but I don't want to get lessons from someone who has made it so blatantly obvious they don't want to coach me.
I just wondered if anyone had any similar experiences, and how they handled it.