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- Jun 27, 2003
My family and I are headed out for a long overdue and much needed family vacation. It's been in the works for over a year now. We're about 5 weeks away from taking off.
One of my close friends is going with her family to the same location on their family trip. They booked/planned their trip about a month ago (if that). Our vacation dates overlap by a couple of days. My friends' mom emailed me a few weeks ago and asked if we wouldn't mind meeting up for a couple of hours on the trip. That was no problem, it would be fun, whatever.
Now she's decided that the two days that we overlap we should spend as much time together as possible. I told her that we don't mind them tagging along, but that we had our vacation plans and itinerary pretty set in stone back at the beginning of summer, and we weren't going to try and change them at such a late date.
Last week this woman asked me what our plans for those two days were. I sent her the itinerary which had the location we were going to be and where we had reservations to eat. That's all I had written down for myself. She immediately responded back with "wow, you sure know how to take the fun out of vacation. you really micromanage." She went on to say that we can't possibly tour this way because we haven't thought about little feet getting tired (they have a 4 year old in their group).
Mind you - this is an itinerary that *I* did not come up with one my own. Each family member had a great deal of say. And our day is NOT planned out except where/when to eat. And where does she come off griping about how the plans ruin HER vacation?! She invited herself into ours?! She's now telling our mutual friends and the world of facebook that I'm a vacation nazi.
I'm *this close* to just telling her to forget it we don't need to tour together, but she's a close friend's mom and I know it'll make issues. (I attend the same church and my dad and her husband are good friends). I just don't know how to deal with this without losing my mind. The worst part is she doesn't realize she's out of line!
One of my close friends is going with her family to the same location on their family trip. They booked/planned their trip about a month ago (if that). Our vacation dates overlap by a couple of days. My friends' mom emailed me a few weeks ago and asked if we wouldn't mind meeting up for a couple of hours on the trip. That was no problem, it would be fun, whatever.
Now she's decided that the two days that we overlap we should spend as much time together as possible. I told her that we don't mind them tagging along, but that we had our vacation plans and itinerary pretty set in stone back at the beginning of summer, and we weren't going to try and change them at such a late date.
Last week this woman asked me what our plans for those two days were. I sent her the itinerary which had the location we were going to be and where we had reservations to eat. That's all I had written down for myself. She immediately responded back with "wow, you sure know how to take the fun out of vacation. you really micromanage." She went on to say that we can't possibly tour this way because we haven't thought about little feet getting tired (they have a 4 year old in their group).
Mind you - this is an itinerary that *I* did not come up with one my own. Each family member had a great deal of say. And our day is NOT planned out except where/when to eat. And where does she come off griping about how the plans ruin HER vacation?! She invited herself into ours?! She's now telling our mutual friends and the world of facebook that I'm a vacation nazi.
I'm *this close* to just telling her to forget it we don't need to tour together, but she's a close friend's mom and I know it'll make issues. (I attend the same church and my dad and her husband are good friends). I just don't know how to deal with this without losing my mind. The worst part is she doesn't realize she's out of line!