Are you saying that the issue is that Mika not following advice of his team? Yes it seems that he can be stubborn but if a skater makes all the decisions himself regarding the layout for example then something is not working in this relationship. Does he not trust Valentina's judgment? I just looked at the scores/protocols again and it does hurt that he could have won that title with 2 4Ts as easily as you like
I don't think trusting Valentina's judgement is the point, I just feel like ultimately he makes more decisions about his own career than anyone else, because that's the way he was brought up to do, and that's the way their relationship works - and also because he's already in his mid-twenties, and with a baggage of taking responsibility from young age, so that kind of thing changes people, molds them. It's one of the things I think would probably put strain on any relationship between him and another coach, not that Misha's stubborn and doesn't think about the things he should, but that there's a rapport between him and his team that is the way it is, and it mostly works, because he wouldn't be where he is now solely on raw talent.
A big part of what happened with him before RusNats was because HE thought he could keep going, and unless you go inside someone's body, you never know for sure how they're feeling. I know we saw the signs coming a mile away, and I'm sure they saw it too, but Misha said himself he could do things in training, and perhaps they all believed he would get better eventually. But he didn't, and after what Semenenok said in the K&C to him, it became pretty clear to me that Misha was the one that thought he could keep going. Also, we have to remember that Misha has studied figure skating, so he has knowledge already, some of it acquired from Valentina and the team, some during his studies, and it probably made him more of an active agent in his training than just a passive listener.
I'm going to reiterate my thoughts, which I've made clear time and time again: I don't think for even a minute that his relationship with the team is the problem. Sometimes they make the wrong decisions, but it's not like you can control everything. Also, expecting Misha to turn into a different person under the tutelage of someone else might come at a different cost. Some people are just the way they are and they won't change. But I do think he is still under the shadow of his Olympic year and what it done to him. Maybe it will blow over in the off season, maybe things will get better, and we can only hope so, but as it was pointed by vorravorra more than once, Misha has never been a constant and consistent skater, and there's no magic in the world to change that. Other skaters have gotten better with age-- and Carolina Kostner comes to my mind. We don't know his future, maybe in a couple of seasons he'll be a different skater too.
Regarding the title at Euros, could he have won with two 4ts? He could have won with one quad and a fall on another, if we go by his skate at Nepela, but Misha wanted to do his best to secure the title, and that was not playing safe. How would he know that Javi wouldn't score twenty points more than he did? It was impossible to know before the competition, so for me it seems like he wanted to lay all cards on the table. It didn't work out, unfortunately. But I'm pretty sure had he gone the safest route and ended up falling behind in the same way, or maybe just landing himself back again on the third place, his situation wouldn't change that much.
And I know that analyzing scores and protocols is really enticing, I do that all the time, which is why I keep dreaming about the 200+ point free skate he could have had this time.