Wow!!! great conversation/thread going on here.....
I think it's my age and some of the unfortunate inevitable life events that have opened my eyes
even more... I can be a loyal enthused admirer/even with bias, but cringe at the blind obsessed bias fanaticalisms.. (is that a correct word?)

Anyway. I have chosen not become involved with certain or some skater specific forums, even though I own one myself.. I don't blame some for not visiting mine or others. It's a choice.... I have worked on and chosen not to even involve myself in a lot of discussions that are petty, silly and really have nothing to do with the skaters but just fans venting their own personal insecurities... I sit back and look and ask ... Is this really all that important or worth getting ignorant over... I am a fan and love the beauty of figure skating..
Fanaticalism (or, the dictionary explanation of a
fanatic) it can be a turn off even if the fans aren't bashing or negatively comparing. It's sometimes hard to keep certain fans from saying somethings unbecoming/un-necessary, but most of us try... But when it's a huge fanatical obsessed base forum, I feel sorry for some mods or owners... I believe if you are confident in yourself, there is no need to look out at others and post negatives about them... If you do, then, that's defeating what your favorite skater(s) has achieved or is about... Enjoy for the time being, don't bother with the negative.... If one continue to be negative, what good memories do you have left to enjoy once that skater(s) hangs up their boots... It's positivity that keeps a healthy person... I also say, when you do read/ go out looking/read what others say about your favorites that is intentionally negative <> It's just an
"opinion" no different than your bias opinion.. If you are a fan, just be confident in yourself as to what you enjoy about that skater and not worry or involve yourself in what others may think..

It's just their opinion...

A good friend always told me.. Denise...
Some -not all- of those internet chat boards can be dangerous and misleading.. Stay away from them... She is a huge B&S fan, went to the 2002 olys.. She still refuse to come to my forum and chat....

I gave her all respects for that. So we along with some other fans chatted on grp Yahoo. Back then.. It was safer...

She knows a lot of skaters personally, owned a few chat lists at one time herself, knows about fan lies,fabrications,gossip, spiteful comments that fans seem to do, and she wanted no part of it.....
Ok.. Hope I have not offended anyone, and hope what I said made sense.. :think:
Denise...
