As older we become, as more we all regress.
When you start with something, you don´t know about the outcome, it´s all new for you and therefore you just take things as they come. As soon you have success, your life is changing and you will face two big problems. Can I do it again and is it right, as I do it?
Artists, athletes, manages... will start to question their own abilities. Guess why we have so many one hit wonders, why so many athletes can´t repeat the Olympic gold except for our Katharina from the last years. Your mind changes and you can no longer approach your life in the same way as you did before, as you have so much more knowledge now and knowledge means work for your mind.
I am pretty sure that Gracie is very motivated and that Frank is very skilled, but it seems like they can not overcome that thought process of "what if". That´s why I always felt that she should just skip a season, look for something else and maybe lose those thoughts over time. It´s hard though, as you compare everything you do now, to what you did in the past - it´s really annoying and it makes you admire certain people even more, who are successful for many decades.
This btw. is something we see with many skaters, nothing to blame Gracie for.
When you start with something, you don´t know about the outcome, it´s all new for you and therefore you just take things as they come. As soon you have success, your life is changing and you will face two big problems. Can I do it again and is it right, as I do it?
Artists, athletes, manages... will start to question their own abilities. Guess why we have so many one hit wonders, why so many athletes can´t repeat the Olympic gold except for our Katharina from the last years. Your mind changes and you can no longer approach your life in the same way as you did before, as you have so much more knowledge now and knowledge means work for your mind.
I am pretty sure that Gracie is very motivated and that Frank is very skilled, but it seems like they can not overcome that thought process of "what if". That´s why I always felt that she should just skip a season, look for something else and maybe lose those thoughts over time. It´s hard though, as you compare everything you do now, to what you did in the past - it´s really annoying and it makes you admire certain people even more, who are successful for many decades.
This btw. is something we see with many skaters, nothing to blame Gracie for.