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- Dec 7, 2022
this year : i will be a grinch no time to decorate. I work until the 22nd and then will be traveling and won't be home for XMAS. So yeah. moving on to next year.
Every year we travel to my parents as soon as my son's school is finished... and usually only come back when he needs to get back to school in January. So I'm never "home" for Christmas. And it's honestly starting to bother me. I am almost 40, but I have never had my own christmas tree since it's not worth it. (In our family we have always used real trees and we only set them up shortly before Christmas so they would still be very fresh during the holidays. ) Almost every year we don't get to light our fourth candle on our Advent wreath (also very important in Germany) because I can't take it all with us. We already take the Advent calendars with us, so we can open the last doors...
I have always loved Christmas and it's still very nice - I do not just get to see my parents, there are also my siblings (and their partners), my aunt and uncle, my cousins, my grandparents (now only my grandmothers left). My son gets to see his father and his other grandparents who live rather close to my parents...
But I really finally want a Christmas tree of my own, decorate the whole apartment and make it christmassy, and not leave it cold and empty on the 22nd... *sigh*
Maybe next year.