All of this compassion, and all these posts supporting Gracie and Karen, and assuming the best, are very heartwarming. As a person who tries and hopes to be encouraging and positive, I'm glad to see it.
And at the same time, I'm thinking about the event just a little less than a year ago, when Ashley had to WD from her fs at SA. The wave of derision around here, and the condemnation, and people questioning her motives, was just stunning. I was at the event, and even though she did very well in the SP, considering her injury, it was plain that she was in pain. You could see it on her face.
Taking it to the way she was treated at Nationals by the judging, which in my opinion should have been either inflated equally, or severely marked equally, it's again hard not to think about what could have been. Looking at the posts in this thread detailing ladies' medals in the past decade, it's clear how valuable Ashley was, and how much she has done for US ladies' figure skating. I don't know, maybe it's an example of the adage "No good deed goes unpunished."
For the record, I am not wishing or hoping that either Karen, Gracie, or anyone else would get the treatment that Ashley got. I've been accused of that, when it hadn't even occurred to me. So that's why I feel that I have to make this clear. I just wish like anything that people in general had given half the compassion, good will, and benefit of the doubt to Ashley that others get.
I miss Ashley's skating, and I wish she'd return, because I still think we need skaters like her in competitions. She brought a lot of charisma, ice presence, personality, and staying power that no one else did.