When I first started skating I had really flimsy old pond skates, so I really miss being able to point my toe that much, especially since I was always getting compliments on publics
Unless I missed something, you still haven't indicated your intended skating style (freestyle, dance, pairs...), or current skating level. E.g., are you jumping, and what jumps? Are you ice dancing, and at what level? Without that info, I don't see how advice about which boots to buy can be all that useful.
I don't know what you mean by pond skates. Do you mean cheap skates that offer almost no protective support? if anything, outdoor ice tends to be rougher, and sometimes you stop abruptly on a patch of dirt, or a section of ice that is frozen harder than the ice around it, so you might actually want more support.
If you have an option, skating on natural poorly maintained ponds is not a great idea while figure skating. For one thing, it wears out your blades fairly fast, because outdoor ice is generally not very clean. And because of the roughness, you might be better off in nordic skates than figure skates. They aren't designed for figure skating tricks, but they can handle rough ice a lot better, and if you are talking about skating cross-country on large lakes, long canals or rivers, can be faster. They are designed for distance travel rather than tricks. Some nordic blades are designed to mount on cross country ski boot (e.g., NNN) bindings. A completely different beast, designed for completely different purposes. I tried them, but decided it wasn't my thing - and not much outdoor cross-country skating is available near me.
You can buy cheap flimsy skates many places. But if you are going up in skating level, or maybe even if not, they would not last you very long, and could easily let you injure yourself. It's not worth injuring yourself!
If you have the flexibility for an unusually large point of that sort, maybe a low cut back would help. Then again, I'm not clear how well your current skates are broken in. If they aren't broken in much, they might get a little more flexible. And people who know what they are doing sometimes modify boots by adding flex notches to add a bit more flexibility - but sometimes at a cost in boot longevity. Overbooting is NOT going to be useful for helping you point your toes for the type of foot point you are talking about. Because that type of point often does involve bending the boot a little. Likewise, for very deep edged ice dance, you may actually want a little sideways ankle flexibility, provided your feet and connecting muscles have the muscle development to take it - which many people don't.
Like tstop4me indicated, a heat mold + punches by a really good shop might solve most of your problems with your current boots. You may not even need to change boots. Depending on many factors.
The lack of contact in the middle of the foot bottoms - because of your high arches? - can possibly be solved by modifying insoles. You could just stick a little cloth athletic tape under the insoles in the area you need to increase the height to create contact. (But: high arches are not a problem I personally have experience with. E.g., I don't know whether you would benefit from using a foam tape - like moleskin, if you want your arches to collapse more gradually than your insole would otherwise allow if you fill the extra space with uncompressible tape. That is, if your arches can collapse significantly without causing pain or injury.)
I'll warn you again that I'm not an expert. Though I've done a lot more boot and insole modification than most skaters, rather than buying new boots. Most skaters don't have the patience, and many don't have the analytic minds needed to figure out what kind of modifications they can make to their boots and insoles to make things work. If you want rapid results, and aren't willing or able to do a lot of experimentation, the type of insole modification I'm talking about may not be for you. And very few skate techs know anything about that sort of thing. It's closer to what podiatrists or orthotists do - but they charge a lot, if your insurance doesn't cover that.
But possibly except for the lack of center contact, finding a really good skate tech should really be your first step. They can help you figure out what you need.