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I think this one is going to be difficult to come back from.Unfortunately he’s inactivated his channels before and brought them back when the storm was over.
A public scolding from USFS is pretty major.
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I think this one is going to be difficult to come back from.Unfortunately he’s inactivated his channels before and brought them back when the storm was over.
I can't imagine he comes back. I have an Instagram and X account, which I use solely as a source for athletics coverage and aging/sports/fitness/nutrition. I'm never post/reply - these are just news feeds for me.That is the kind of coverage I enjoyed back in the day when I watched his youtube channel. I don't approve of some of the more catty/mean comments, but hey, he FAFO-ed. I imagine this has been devastating for him- though not even close to the devastation to the families/friends of the skaters feel. If/when he comes back, I hope that he will refrain from any language that is hurtful. One can be honest without being nasty.
nah, he will be back, not sure if before Worlds, I've seen far worse cases where the accounts were backI can't imagine he comes back. I have an Instagram and X account, which I use solely as a source for athletics coverage and aging/sports/fitness/nutrition. I'm never post/reply - these are just news feeds for me.
The Instagram post from USFSA has been liked, commented on, or shared as a story by Ilia Malinin, Madison Chock, Danny O'Shea, Misha Mitrofanov, Meagan D, Jackie Wong, Anthony Ponomarenko, SCOB, On Ice Perspectives...the list goes on and on. And these are just the ones highlighted for me because I follow them.
I've heard the skating community is close knit. They've closed ranks, and I doubt he'll be able to book guests now.
Well, he might be back, but without the guests, is there really a point? And I don't think he'll get them. And I regret it, because we didn't get those perspectives in long form very often.nah, he will be back, not sure if before Worlds, I've seen far worse cases where the accounts were back
Apart from the sheer vileness and heartlessness of the comments, I do not even understand what he is trying to say - the airplane tragedy and the question of whether these were good skaters or not are entirely unrelated IMO and it feels like he is dragging one of them into the other for an argument I do not understand. It seems...pointless at best.Some people going over board in their reaction to him makes them awful people too. It does not absolve him of what he said, nor should be used as a means of making people feel sorry for him and trivializing the things he said.
"What makes me uncomfortable is, not everyone who's on that plane was that talented at skating, right? Like, I don't think it was worth, like, the gamble of giving up your life and your education and everything for skating. Like that's what hit me when I was doing the... writing tributes to people. Like, these people died - and yes they were at a development camp which they loved... but they were also being taken advantage of, because we all knew they weren't going to make it in skating, right? Like, and it seemed like their families were hook line and sinker, you know involved."
It's insane that THAT'S what "hit him" when writing the tributes. Not the LOSS of talent, but (in his opinion) the LACK of talent. Not that they're dead and will miss out on the rest of their lives (nevermind skating careers).... but that they were undeserving of attending such a camp in the first place, needlessly giving up their lives (as if they had the foresight to know their plane would crash), and laying the blame on their families for supporting their skating careers.
Cabadianskaterguy has kindly supplied the relevant quote (post 139 above).Quote Lease, thanks.
Sorry Tonto it wasn't directed at you! I was throwing shade, and rolling my eyes, at Dave's hypocrisy.I'm not sure what you're getting at. The clip you snipped from my post came from a paragraph expressing my hope that someone else steps into the space where interesting interviews and educational segments of figure skating are discussed and illustrated. You might think that's unimportant, but it hardly merits the snark and eye roll.
Sorry Tonto it wasn't directed at you! I was throwing shade, and rolling my eyes, at Dave's hypocrisy.
Dave questioned if these late skaters were worthy enough to attend a USFS development camp (after proving themselves in competitions, mind you), due to them apparently being "not that talented" and unlikely to "make it in skating".
Meanwhile, even with his comparatively inferior skating ability, and being a casual adult skater — who will never possess an iota of the talent as the skaters he's criticized... he still deemed himself worthy enough to take development/coaching lessons from an Olympic medalist.
Expressing an opinion is one thing, but think about the context in which he expressed that.
He was talking about predatory coaches who lie to parents and skaters about skaters' skills to continue charging them at the expense of the skater's childhood and their parents taking on multiple jobs to pay for the cost of the sport. Jesus Christ, lay off. The Skating Lesson does so much more for the sport and actual skating fans than USFS ever does; they're stuck in 1982. Newsflash: it's 2025. The USFS is the reason the sport is dying all over the country. Shame on them for piling on.
His mouth worked faster than his brain. I am not giving him a pass at all...but if you were to take his content and rephrase it, it becomes an opinion (I guess) about coaches ripping off families, which he is entitled to. Right or wrong. But it did not come out like that. I am hoping there are no coaches out there who do a Prof. Harold Hill of telling parents their children have the signs of great music ability. When they play the trumpet like I did.....Huh. I may not always agree with what he says and he sometimes has bad manners, but his discussions of skating events with ex skaters, coaches and journalists in his YT channels are usually pretty interesting.
Not sure what happened here.
ITA. Who amoung you has never said something cruel or hurtful and been sad about it when it was pointed out to you what you said and the way you said it? You may throw the first stone. I certainly have said things to both wives I have regretted and I have told my current wife to point out things I say that are hurtful or at least sound that way in real time so I can reflect and apologize or re-phrase. I am getting better at not doing that and waiting before I speak. I hope he does that too. A few years ago now, I was doing some research on one of skating saddest events of cheating and I found his youtubes, IIRC. He knew a heck of a lot more about the circumstances than I did and wasnt afraid to comment on them. His position can be used for good or evil, accidental or not.I can't argue with any of this.
I've enjoyed much of his content, but I'm not a fan of the man himself... if that makes sense. But that doesn't matter to me in this discussion.
Whether he returns to social media is irrelevant. For me, belief in redemption is an article of faith. I'm not talking about revitalizing his social media following, I'm talking about redeeming himself and improving as a person.
I am hopeful for this outcome. I've been through redemption processes. Some have been over big things, some have been smaller. It's about going through a cycle of apology, reflection, and doing better. This is not a quick fix. As you say, time will tell, but in this respect, I'm rooting for him.
Is heartless and offensive comment and haven’t empathy toward the victims and their loves ones.He basically said the skaters who died in the crash were not that talented and the parents were wasting their money.
While Lease worked very hard to keep TSL going, and that's commendable, he did not create that space by himself. Sadly, he also had many opportunities to rise above his personal character flaws, which is, of course, hard to do. So far, he has failed, albeit not irreparably, but he has hurt a lot of people with his snarky comments, gossipy takes, and putdowns.I hope someone is savvy enough to step into the space [Lease] created... Quite a few of us will miss the interviews which often provided historical background and perspective...
Do you mean in figure skating? What specific examples are you thinking of?nah, he will be back, not sure if before Worlds, I've seen far worse cases where the accounts were back
I'll say my words here. Good effing riddance to David Lease. I watched some stuff from The Skating Lesson before. But they slowly started getting more and more intolerable as time went on and went after skaters unfairly multiple times. He's more of like someone that didn't grow up from high school in terms of gossip. While I'm not glad this is how he finally has a large amount of people criticizing him on his behavior happened, it's better late than never. And you can't run from bad behavior forever.Cabadianskaterguy has kindly supplied the relevant quote (post 139 above).
"What makes me uncomfortable is, not everyone who's on that plane was that talented at skating, right? Like, I don't think it was worth, like, the gamble of giving up your life and your education and everything for skating. Like that's what hit me when I was doing the... writing tributes to people. Like, these people died - and yes they were at a development camp which they loved... but they were also being taken advantage of, because we all knew they weren't going to make it in skating, right? Like, and it seemed like their families were hook line and sinker, you know involved."
What is an emotionally crushed parent to take away from these words except, If you hadn't been so foolish as to push your talentless son or daughter into figure skating, that child would be alive today.
Beautifully stated. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.I'll say my words here. Good effing riddance to David Lease. I watched some stuff from The Skating Lesson before. But they slowly started getting more and more intolerable as time went on and went after skaters unfairly multiple times. He's more of like someone that didn't grow up from high school in terms of gossip. While I'm not glad this is how he finally has a large amount of people criticizing him on his behavior happened, it's better late than never. And you can't run from bad behavior forever.
I was never taken advantage of doing something I loved. My parents encouraged me to do what I loved. There are some people here that are adult skaters in terms of doing adult competitions, not going to the Olympics. But they still do skating because they love it. Not all the skaters in national championships are going to go to the World stages, but they still love skating and doing what they do. And being invited to such a camp is an honor for them. It's worth it for them to be a part of that camp. To be recognized enough for the talent they do have.
I appreciate it.Beautifully stated. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.