And what's an ideal Romeo? The dude killed 3 people including himself. Mercutio's death was not necessary either, neither was Juliette's. If he had a bit patience to wait in Mantua, they both might have survived. Remember how it all started: he was pining for someone else, went to distract at a ball at Capuletti's, fell in a new love in 1/2 hour, then picked up a fight, lost his best friend and killed his fiance's cousin and had to flee in exile, was lucky not to be executed. Then killed Paris without much thought, then himself, and then his mom died of grief. Not exactly mature behaviour.
I think one might have to be a genius to express all this in 4 minutes, but I am not a fan of most Shakespear's characters.