2005 was a very bad year for me in romance. I only met about two new guys, and they were not at all interested in me, so the two dates I had never turned into a 2nd date. I am now scared to try to meet guys now because if and when the phone never rings, I know I have failed again to 'woo" a guy.
This wouldn't be so bad if I were 21, but I am 37 in January and anxious to settle down.
I am frustrated and bitterly jealous when girls around me can get a guy, but I can't. I have always been an observor to the dating world, but rarely a participant. And what triggered this post was finding out a 23-year-old girl I know just got her first boyfriend.
I don't know why I am scaring off men or unable to "woo" one. I never bring up committment, marriage or fertility clocks on these dates. I am from a nice family with a stable background and I live in a nice house. We even have a cottage in northern Michigan.
Sigh...
PS--I have already asked many people to fix me up with somebody but nobody seems to know of any single men in our area.
This wouldn't be so bad if I were 21, but I am 37 in January and anxious to settle down.
I am frustrated and bitterly jealous when girls around me can get a guy, but I can't. I have always been an observor to the dating world, but rarely a participant. And what triggered this post was finding out a 23-year-old girl I know just got her first boyfriend.
I don't know why I am scaring off men or unable to "woo" one. I never bring up committment, marriage or fertility clocks on these dates. I am from a nice family with a stable background and I live in a nice house. We even have a cottage in northern Michigan.
Sigh...
PS--I have already asked many people to fix me up with somebody but nobody seems to know of any single men in our area.