Your love was publicly known when you insinuated that Anna is somehow a better person because she would of course have done everything the correct way, and that Sasha did something wrong. And if you feel like you do not need to justify yourself on this, then I guess that speaks for itself. :/
In my opinion, it is unfair to make judgements when nobody knows on what terms Sasha and her coaches were when they split. Maybe it was not on amicable terms; then it would be understandable for Sasha to stay quiet and let her parents handle it. That could be the case, hearing the disgusting crap that her dance choreographer Zheleznyakov was spewing about her in his interview, calling her a traitor who ceases to exist, etc. (The same man who is dancing with her in
this video).
I don’t know how a member of Sasha’s old team can say such crap and people still will criticise her for not saying goodbye.