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Toni, I'm going to take your comment about transgender people as being based on lack of information rather than being willful disregard for the facts. I know that you have a predisposition to dismiss with disdain anything that falls into supposed liberal ideology, but you really are doing yourself a disservice by failing to examine some issues more closely.

Transgender people are not men dressed as women or women dressed as men purely for the emotional satisfaction of doing so. What you are referring to is cross-dressing, a related but separate subject. Cross-dressing is practiced by people who clearly identify with their physical gender and who don't wish to alter it but simply feel more comfortable wearing the clothing of the opposite sex for certain periods of time. It has nothing to do with their sexual orientation. Very many cross-dressing men are heterosexual, are married, work and live in traditional male roles and clothing. A transgender person is someone who is born with a particular physical gender but who psychologically and emotionally does not identify with that gender. They literally feel like they were born into the wrong body. The parts don't fit their own perception of self. In the past before sex reassignment surgery, the only recourse for transgender people to approximate life as their ideal selves was to cross dress as effectively as possible, thus leading to the common confusion with true cross-dressers. But for them this was not a temporary act, but as close to permanent as was manageable. Now that medical treatment is available, transgender people have more viable options that allow them to more accurately realize themselves.

As for the specifics of gender reassignment, if a fully transgender woman (born physically male but having completed reassignment surgery) wishes to compete in sports against other women, she does not possess the physical advantage you implied. The hormones she must take to maintain the effects of her reassignment surgery create real physical changes in her body including metabolic changes, adjustments to endurance, loss of muscle mass, bone density, weight redistribution and increased production of body fat. Renee Richards (one of the most famous trans athletes ever) was put through countless humiliating exercises by the Women's Tennis Association to prove her gender in court in the 1970s. Tons of fear based accusations were made that she would somehow be dominating fellow women players. She didn't. The combination of her age, the effects of her hormones and the quality of the women against whom she competed all proved greater than any supposed advantage she might have had by her birth gender. Considering the fact the transgender youth are coming to terms with their status at younger and younger ages and also being treated for it, these feared physical advantages are being even further negated.

So I really don't think it would matter one bit if a trans woman wanted to compete. The ISU would of course lead the reactionary traditionalist brigade to resist the effort, but thankfully the Court of Arbitration for Sport exists and would have the final say based on actual evidence rather than fear.

ETA: Blubonnet, why do all women have to fit into your narrow view of what they should be? Why can't every individual woman be the best and most fulfilling woman she wants to be rather than what society dictates for her? For that matter, why must men all fit into conceptions that are just as narrow? Variety and diversity are the most valuable traits of any successful species of life.
 
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I know that you have a predisposition to dismiss with disdain anything that falls into supposed liberal ideology,

Actually I take pride in that "liberals" find me an uber conservative and "conservatives" think I'm too liberal...

and with that I think I'm out of this whole debate. I said my piece - That it may have had a negative context back when this whole mess started seems trivial. There are a lot of words that are now acceptable (though the GS censor doesn't allow them) that weren't back then and the same posters wanting to 'ban' ladies have no problem with these other words. That's my main issue. I don't like having people tell me day in and day out that I'm supposed to be offended at something just because of my gender, and if I'm NOT upset I somehow "don't get it" OR I'm less of a woman. That's the problem with a lot of these "tolerance" debates (or equality).
 
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ETA: Blubonnet, why do all women have to fit into your narrow view of what they should be? Why can't every individual woman be the best and most fulfilling woman she wants to be rather than what society dictates for her? For that matter, why must men all fit into conceptions that are just as narrow? Variety and diversity are the most valuable traits of any successful species of life.
Thank you for pointing this out. Feminism, to me, is not about making yourself into something you're not; it's about giving people choices. If a woman wants to be an engineer, a professional athlete, a teacher, a stay at home mom - all these choices and more besides are fine. If she wants to be promiscuous or to wait until marriage or anything in between, that's her right and one that should be respected. The same goes for men. You do not have to behave in ways that are traditionally feminine to be a woman. You do not have to have traditionally masculine interests to be a man. It's about choices and decisions and making the best ones you can for yourself and the circumstances you are in. You do not have to force yourself to be something you don't want to be because it's the right thing for your gender. Not everyone was so lucky in the past, and many people are not so lucky today. I'm grateful to the women (and men) who have fought and sacrificed so that we can have these opportunities.
 
In a sense, I do believe that women are biologically stronger half. There are so many things could go wrong ever since the beginning of conceive for a male. There are all kinds of hazards in human's daily living which could undermine or even alter male hormones. Mother is the first and continue to be the more or less influencial figure through out life to the male (and female, of course) offsprings. Males are susceptible to many genetic diseases which females would not easily or would never get.

The more I've been seeing and hearing, the more I've come to the conclusion that women, in general, have stronger minds and nerves. Men need women's protection, not physically, but emotionally. We've been saying all along that "Mother's love is the greatest love in the world." "Every successful man's behind is a great woman."

Variety and diversity are the most valuable traits of any successful species of life.

I fail to understand the logic behind this claim.
 
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What benefit or hindrance do the presence of a person's genitals provide for completing a camel spin or a triple toe loop? Yes some trans people choose not to surgically alter their genitals. That has nothing to do with their taking hormonal treatments. But really, that's neither here nor there. Sports cases involving questions of participation have almost all ended up centering around anatomical or hormonal questions not choice of dress.

Also, you apparently either did not understand or you are ignoring what I wrote about the very distinct difference between someone who is transgender and someone who cross-dresses. The former does not identify with their birth gender and the latter does identify with their physical gender and does not wish to change it.

Lastly I know you have a sincere suspicion of the modern world in general, and liberal politics specifically but it seems to be almost knee jerk at this point in terms of how dismissive you are about it all. I honestly want to know, do you think liberalism has nothing of benefit to contribute? Do you believe that people should not stand up for themselves in court if they feel they have been wronged? Would you rather that people simply swallowed their pride and kept quiet? What would your solution be to the issues which you criticize? Would you like it to all just go away, not be discussed? Do you agree with Bluebonnet that we should all just fit into narrow Victorian categories of behavior and gender roles? Is your point of view based in part on geography or is it deeper than that? I'm not belittling you, I sincerely wish to understand where you are coming from.

ETA: Bluebonnet, do you realize you are making arguments against women being strong and assertive while discussing a sport that by definition encourages them to be physically strong, emotionally resilient, produces regular injuries, and often asks them to present themselves in less than genteel outfits and themes? A bit of a paradox wouldn't you say? Also, it might behoove you to crack open a biology textbook or scientific journal to help in understanding my point (unless of course you think the earth is 6,000 years old). Variety and diversity are long established being essential to a species' ability to adapt to its environment. Anthropologists and sociologists have found that such adaptability is not limited to biology but extends to social settings as well. A society filled with nothing but dainty women and manly men will not last too long. That's where your argument that we should return to some sort of mythical past where those conditions exists falls flat. It was never true. Human society has always been diverse, perhaps not quite so openly as it is now, but true nonetheless. If we only had manly men who can crack brick with their foreheads, then we would have very little enjoyable music for skaters to move to or great works of art to view in museums. If we only ever had dainty women, we would not have had women brave enough to fight off invaders of their villages (Spartan women), tend to wounds on the battlefield (Florence Nightingale, Mary Seacole), work to free slaves (Harriet Tubman, Sojourner Truth), isolate and catalog the characteristics if radiation (Marie Curie), lead nations (Elizabeth I, Catherine the Great), skate in a event for men only (Madge Syers) or inventively create new elements (Cecelia Colledge). All of these people broke the mold you are so blithely asserting as being ideal. The thumbed their noses as what the wider world said about them and did what worked best for them.
 
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jcoates, you are quite mistaken. I have the least (I'm trying to be accurate on wording. So I do not dismiss entirely the possibilities of my take having limit) stereotypical image on males and male skaters compare with what the North Americans in general think which I'm often pissed off with. I'm quite well accepting the various types and forms of males and females. I do insist the limit though. There has to be limit to anything and everything. Or it'll be no principles and no morals and no rules, like many things have been going on. My take is not conflicting with the desire for what I have listed.
 
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Lastly I know you have a sincere suspicion of the modern world in general, and liberal politics specifically but it seems to be almost knee jerk at this point in terms of how dismissive you are about it all. I honestly want to know, do you think liberalism has nothing of benefit to contribute? Do you believe that people should not stand up for themselves in court if they feel they have been wronged? Would you rather that people simply swallowed their pride and kept quiet? What would your solution be to the issues which you criticize? Would you like it to all just go away, not be discussed? Do you agree with Bluebonnet that we should all just fit into narrow Victorian categories of behavior and gender roles? Is your point of view based in part on geography or is it deeper than that? I'm not belittling you, I sincerely wish to understand where you are coming from.

I still don't get where me not getting all upset because someone dares to use the term ladies puts me in an anti-everything point of view. I am a moral conservative. No, I do not believe women need to be June Cleaver - because aside from the tv show she never existed. Not in the way she was portrayed. I do believe in equality - I do NOT believe in finding offense with every little thing that MIGHT be construed as un-PC. I will bend over backwards to help those that I do, truly, believe are being treated unfairly. I do believe in consistancy and in fairness. But I don't believe in holding down somone just because their kind held my kind (I hate even saying it this way) back decades or centuries ago. Yeah, I didn't live through the 60s and 70s or before our cultural *awareness* of the "inequality."

People sit here and judge this side like we're all out to get them or we're against them. That somehow I don't "understand" because I may have lived in a different area - so we dismiss this and it's okay, but if someone else dismisses it's "wrong" - or I'm "too young" (oh look, where's the group of people sitting there saying youth gets discriminated against?).

Yes, I'm angry. I'm angry at being told I am somehow less of a person or a woman or whatever because I don't agree. That I somehow would like to go back to wearing that dress with the pearls making my husband's lunch. That I don't appreciate the fact that, without asking me, people try to stand up for me because of my gender (a reverse discrimination IMO because it determines that I somehow need help just because of what I am). I grew up with a lot of people (mainly outside my family) telling me my only role was to grow up with the skills to be a good housewife. I know that mentality exists. I balked at the idea because I know myself. I love kids but OMG I would not be ready to raise them right out of high school or college. I'm just now getting into that mindset. I was called selfish then, just as I'm somehow being called selfish and ignorant now. I'm not ignorant. I just don't see how "ladies" is somehow a worse term than that of a female dog?


Again, I'm really getting out of the debate. If it's still confusing to people as to what I think, that's not my problem. Perhaps that same blockage that I have in seeing the truth is the same type of problem blockage that others have in actually getting that I may care WHEN THE ISSUE IS WORTH CARING ABOUT. The word "ladies" just doesn't fly with me as something to write a thesis on or try to change laws for.

ETA: I asked my mom's friends who actually lived through that era that apparently one must have survived in order to understand about the term ladies being an offensive term. While a few said that, yes, it was a bad term at the time, they've found themselves using it more and more now as they don't believe it holds any power over them. One of my favorite's, though:
I always considered being referred to as a "lady" meant that someone highly regarded and respected me as a woman. There is certainly nothing offensive about it. And on another note, I can understand where the roots of feminism might have come from, but it has become the equivalent of someone cutting off their nose to spite their face.

I agree, while the original movement for equality was one I probably could get on board with, I just don't see how arguing over the trivial stuff helps the cause at all? inequality in the workforce, ok. Calling it a ladies room vs a womens room? No thanks.
 
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I've responded to all the Game threads and now I'm so bored that I come here to say "Big deal" to ladies vs. women debate. :biggrin: The difference is so trivial, and if there is any negative connotation about "ladies", it is so petty and negligible. Has gender equality advanced so much that feminists now focus on trivial labels that bear little consequence? I'm pro-choice, pro-feminism, pro-cross-dressers, pro-hairdressers..., and I'm pro-"Ladies" as well.:p
 
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I still don't get where me not getting all upset because someone dares to use the term ladies puts me in an anti-everything point of view. I am a moral conservative. No, I do not believe women need to be June Cleaver - because aside from the tv show she never existed. Not in the way she was portrayed. I do believe in equality - I do NOT believe in finding offense with every little thing that MIGHT be construed as un-PC. I will bend over backwards to help those that I do, truly, believe are being treated unfairly. I do believe in consistancy and in fairness. But I don't believe in holding down somone just because their kind held my kind (I hate even saying it this way) back decades or centuries ago. Yeah, I didn't live through the 60s and 70s or before our cultural *awareness* of the "inequality."

People sit here and judge this side like we're all out to get them or we're against them. That somehow I don't "understand" because I may have lived in a different area - so we dismiss this and it's okay, but if someone else dismisses it's "wrong" - or I'm "too young" (oh look, where's the group of people sitting there saying youth gets discriminated against?).

I agree, while the original movement for equality was one I probably could get on board with, I just don't see how arguing over the trivial stuff helps the cause at all? inequality in the workforce, ok. Calling it a ladies room vs a womens room? No thanks.

Toni, I hope you stay in this! Your point of view is extremely valuable for all the reasons that you mention--your more conservative stance, your location, your age--and including your egalitarian soul. As far as the word lady, I don't see how it's a deal-breaker in the struggle for equality either. (Maybe that's just because I'm a medievalist? Yipes!) And you shouldn't be castigated for it.

One thing I think that's great about a site like this is that we're going to be talking to people from entirely different contexts, who have arrived at different conclusions about life. In the world as it is now, people tend to gather with others who share their ideas. It's really good to talk (even sometimes a bit emphatically) to people who have other ideas, especially people with whom one has something else in common. Look, we're all in this world together. There are real enemies out there, people who want to kill other people or subjugate them or commit bodily harm. A person who merely disagrees with you is not "the enemy." Most of us here are people of good will, who take care of those around us and will reach out to a stranger from time to time. Is there any reason we can't feel very differently about some issues and still be seen as people of good will? (Even if Some of Us are Sadly Misguided about Michelle Kwan....)

I don't know how to articulate what's in my mind about this, so forgive me if I put it in an unsatisfactory way, but feminism and any other movement of change can't be considered successful unless there's room for as many people as possible in it. Someone earlier on this thread said something about "feminisms," meaning that there were different degrees and strains of the belief, and that comes closest to the point I'm trying to make. Toni doesn't agree with jcoates on everything, but that doesn't put either of them in some other tent. I have to point out that, living in Alaska, Toni is probably far closer than I am to the strong woman Susan B. Anthony and Louisa May Alcott wanted us all to be.

One of the biggest problems I've seen in this country (I can't speak for other places) in recent years is not that we don't recognize our enemies. It's that we don't recognize our friends. If we relatively civilized skating fans can't work it out, how can we expect people who are really at the far ends of things, who feel besieged and don't trust "those people over there"?

It might be that not a single person here has been convinced of a single point made by those who disagree. So? We're not enacting legislation here. But if we listen to one another, we can learn how these ideas work in real life, and what makes each of of them important to the people who support them. And maybe we've all been able to clarify our own thoughts so that we know why we stand where we do. That'll help us in the next argument we have on this issue, in whatever venue it occurs.

Oh, dear, I can't say this clearly. Maybe someone else can make a better attempt. Anyway, I think this has been extraordinarily interesting, and in its odd way very nourishing. It's always good to hear from people of good will who have thoughts that aren't like ours.
 
I'm sorry to have missed a large part of this discussion. I was busy with some family things, and then lost the internet for some days (other than on my cell phone, where HI is about the extent of what I can write and post.

Olympia, I thought you did beautifully, making the important point of recognizing our friends.

So many different things have come tumbling out on this thread. I can't speak to many of them.

I do agree that there are many types of feminists, just as there are many stripes of Republicans and Democrats.
I don't think that the excesses of one group of people should be used to tar all the rest who share a label with them.

Certainly the feminists I knew back in the early 70's wanted women who wanted traditional roles to be able to pursue them without being devalued in public. They spent a lot of time figuring out the dollar worth of all the things traditional housewives and homemakers did to prove women were worth something in the broader scheme of things, since at that time, traditional homemakers were considered 'unemployed'.

One thing they were most vehement about was the right of women to full information from their doctors about their health, and respect from those doctors, and a recognition that they were the customers of the doctors, and should get the respect of adult customers.

Two books from those years that were very important to me:

Our Bodies, Ourselves
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_s...ords=our+bodies+ourselves&sprefix=our+bodies+

The Hidden Malpractice: How American Medicine Mistreats Women
http://www.amazon.com/Hidden-Malpra...=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1325804384&sr=1-1

I am sad to say that I believe all stories about gynaecologists being beastly to women some 30 or more years ago. Sometimes it seemed they self selected gynaecology because they hated women (including those who were women). Toni, I am not surprised to hear how badly your mother was treated, but it still makes me very sad.

I too am glad you're here, and that you're enough of what I would call an old-style feminist to pick what you think is the best way through life for you, and ignore what guilt trips one or another group tries to put on you to force you into a path you don't want.

I do want to say that I don't think clerical work is demeaning; if I did think that, I wouldn't have done it. What was demeaning was the salary paid for it back in the day; so low that a women with children could not come close to supporting herself. Even a single woman needed to share a place with several other single women.

I saw 4 very sad cases of the effects of underpaying women when I lived in Kodiak Island Borough (not the navy base, and not the City of Kodiak). We lived in the unincorporated area of the island. There was no government, and the only police was one over burdened state trooper who had as his 'beat' the whole Kodiak Island group, and the Aleutians all the way out to Attu. The Aleutian Chain alone is 1200 miles long. The only thing the trooper did much about was murder. Consequently, less serious crimes, like prostitution, were completely ignored. 2 women in the trailer park we lived in and 2 Navy wives were ditched by their husbands. All had children. 2 were waitresses, one was a fish packer, one was unemployed. Without any child support, they couldn't make ends meet. All made the decision to be prostitutes; it was the only 'women's' job that paid enough to live on there if you had kids. Back in that day, nobody enforced child support payments, either.

That was demeaning.

I don't think 'ladies' vs. women as a label for skating is a big deal, but it's sort of a :rolleyes: thing. Not enough to start a major push to have it done away with, but enough to think, the more things change, the more they stay the same and then to forget about it.

What worries me more is the fact that Republicans in Iowa were 8 votes short of nominating a man for the presidency who doesn't belive in contraception, even for married women. Without contraception, you can't get and keep a job as a married woman. That is & was the key to job equality, and equal pay for equal work.
 
Personally, I found the condescension and judgment in these posts literally breathtaking:

Toni, I'm going to take your comment about transgender people as being based on lack of information rather than being willful disregard for the facts. I know that you have a predisposition to dismiss with disdain anything that falls into supposed liberal ideology, but you really are doing yourself a disservice by failing to examine some issues more closely.

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^ so, I can see you point about not getting on board; what I find distressing is the dismissive language, the anger that seems to be boiling beneath it - like it is just too too exhausting to think about power, equality, inequality, identity, opportunity and yes - gender relations in all of this and these shapes and impact what and how we see, experience, understand and wish for in life. I also cringe at the seeming wish that 'it' would just all go away, when the "it" remains unspecified but makes me worry that IT does not include inequality (like that can stay, just deal with it) but people like me who might question it and hope for more. But like many others here, I too am glad you are here.

Between this kind of thing and the sheer time it would take to respond to the multitude of liberal posters who are offended by my views (I don't happen to have essays on pro-life feminism lying around in my desk drawer), I pretty much avoid political conversations on this forum. But every now and then I feel an obligation to myself and my principles to speak up.

Thanks to Toni, Bluebonnet, and any others I am forgetting for "daring to be different" in this thread. : ) And thanks to Olympia, and any others I am forgetting, for showing respect for views of feminism that depart from liberal orthodoxy.
 
FWIW, Spun Silver, when you make a comment like: "(I don't happen to have essays on pro-life feminism lying around in my desk drawer)" - I feel like you're making the same level of judgement and condescension you decry.
 
Well put, Olympia.

I have also found this discussion very interesting, and feel it is important to hear from those who do not necessarily share our point of view, as well as people from other countries and cultures. If we can speak to one another calmly, without anger or rancour (hard as that may be at times), then we may better understand our differences and find common ground.

I agree that "recognizing one's friends" and working through differences which are probably not deal-breakers in the overall scheme of things are vital.

I'd also like to suggest that the freedoms that many (unfortunately, not all) of us enjoy in many countries of the world today, which have been hard-won through many people's efforts around the globe (including those of feminists, civil rights leaders, believers in various philosophies related to individual liberties, etc.) are what allow us to think for ourselves, express ourselves without fear, and engage in this discussion in the first place.
 
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Certainly the feminists I knew back in the early 70's wanted women who wanted traditional roles to be able to pursue them without being devalued in public. They spent a lot of time figuring out the dollar worth of all the things traditional housewives and homemakers did to prove women were worth something in the broader scheme of things, since at that time, traditional homemakers were considered 'unemployed'.

One thing they were most vehement about was the right of women to full information from their doctors about their health, and respect from those doctors, and a recognition that they were the customers of the doctors, and should get the respect of adult customers. .

Yes, that was very much true in Canada as well. Ensuring that the work of homemakers was valued was a major goal of feminists. That included crediting their contributions to the economy, and ensuring that they were fairly treated (financially) if a marriage broke down. The right to be fully informed by doctors, and to be treated as "adult customers" (as you put it) was also key. You mentioned the book, "Our Bodies, Ourselves". Yes it was great; I owned it.

Toni....I too am glad you're here, and that you're enough of what I would call an old-style feminist to pick what you think is the best way through life for you, and ignore what guilt trips one or another group tries to put on you to force you into a path you don't want.

ITA. :)

What worries me more is the fact that Republicans in Iowa were 8 votes short of nominating a man for the presidency who doesn't belive in contraception, even for married women. Without contraception, you can't get and keep a job as a married woman. That is & was the key to job equality, and equal pay for equal work.

This.

ETA: If we want to get into labels, the reversion from "homemaker" (a term that arose out of feminism) back to "housewife" in recent years bugs me. Work done in the home is important, and the word "housewife" trivializes it to some degree, IMO. Not the biggest deal in the world, but there you have it. Another word that has made a comeback, "retarded/retarX", troubles me too. I thought we had successfully ditched that one. Now it's back, and once again a schoolyard taunt, as it was 30 years ago. IMO there's a good reason why we ditched some older terms that were prejudicial.
 
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Thanks to Toni, Bluebonnet, and any others I am forgetting for "daring to be different" in this thread.
That's a strange logic. If you thanked them for the specific arguments they made, I got it. You thanked them for "daring to be different", hm?:confused: Why daring to be different automatically deserves merits? Will you thank me for "daring to be different" if I say "All Americans are stupid and should go to hell"? A poor argument that is different from others is truly bad, indeed, although a good argument that deviates from the norm is extra admirable. Daring to be different should not always be encouraged. I certainly don't want to see somebody jump naked onto the rink and start shooting at the audience during a competition for the mere sake of "daring to be different".
 
FWIW, Spun Silver, when you make a comment like: "(I don't happen to have essays on pro-life feminism lying around in my desk drawer)" - I feel like you're making the same level of judgement and condescension you decry.
Huh? All I meant is that I would need an essay to respond to the many criticisms of my posts and I would have to research and compose it, as I haven't already written one on the topic. What's wrong with saying that?

But thanks for the Wiki-link, Mathman. : )

And to skatinginbc, "dare to be different" is a very common phrase that IIRC (which I may not) originated in the gay rights movement but is now widely used to valorize the willingness to stand against the tide. I appropriated it for conservatives because in a lot of contexts nowadays, skating forums or academia for example, it's harder to be openly conservative than it is to be liberal/progressive, simply because conservatives are greatly outnumbered and looked down on. I hear there are other contexts where conservatives are favored and liberals not, but living on the East Coast, I haven't personally experienced them. :p
 
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Huh? All I meant is that I would need an essay to respond to the many criticisms of my posts and I would have to research and compose it, as I haven't already written one on the topic. What's wrong with saying that?

But thanks, Mathman. : )

In the past, you've said stuff along the lines of: "I don't have time to do this, but you're free to do so if it amuses you" (to me in the SC FD thread, to SkateFiguring when he was responding to someone else), and it comes off as dismissive here, as if the only reponse to what jcoates et al said was to imply that you didn't have time for it. I would genuinely be interested in the facts that support the assertions you've made.
 
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