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Dee4707 said:
Red Dog, I mean in general a fan of figure skating not any particular skater. I think if you're a figure skating fan then you are all for all the skaters because you know what they have to go through to be a competitive skater. To me a true figure skating fan does not wish someone to fall or to have a total melt down just so their skater will win and to say I hope Skater A doesn't win, that's just mean. Where's the sportmanship in that? I think all the skaters deserve some respect.
Dee,
You express my feelings about the reasons this thread got started so much more cogently than I. Maybe a certain person will "get it" reading your words rather than mine.

However, that's not the reason I replied. I'm just a fan of and totally agree with your post. :)

Rgirl
 
Thanks

Rgirl said:
Dee,
You express my feelings about the reasons this thread got started so much more cogently than I. Maybe a certain person will "get it" reading your words rather than mine.

However, that's not the reason I replied. I'm just a fan of and totally agree with your post. :)

Rgirl
Thank you both. I have stayed away because I knew all the HATE woould be coming out. Shame shame shame. Will Kimberly have time to learn to skate between her jumps this year or is she going to be a Surya B.
 
you know, this is really odd. This condemning of Sasha "haters" would NEVER have happened here two years ago (or even six months ago). Although I think the INTENTION of the post was maybe ill-intended, there was nothing I saw that would really make me mad. I don't think I've ever cheered when a skater has fallen (not even Irina in Torino), but I think it's a thing that certain fans might SUBCONSCIOUSLY do in their minds if they want their favorite to win. Of course some simply enjoy the skating of others, but there are some out there that want victory for their fave and will cheer or be happy when her competitiors fail. And- here is the news- this is SPORT, guys. We cheer when an opposing basketball team misses a free throw or the opposing football team throws an interception, right? (This is fan talk in particular, NOT the players themselves.) So, to use the same analogy, why can't fans of one skater cheer when another skater fails? Just living up to my custom title here. Skating is a sport, you say, right? So...why not?

To switch topics, though...you all know I didn't want Irina to win Olys. But I didn't cheer when she fell- and I actually felt bad for her afterwards because it's always saddening to see someone's dreams crushed. And I didn't want Cohen to win Worlds, and even when I bet against her winning, I don't remember cheering when she made mistakes or fell. (In fact, I expected it.) And the look on her face afterwards was really heart-wrenching, to me anyway. But at the same time I'm happy for Kimmie and her win, even though I didn't quite expect her to win or didn't know what to think of her winning.
 
So, to use the same analogy, why can't fans of one skater cheer when another skater fails?

It's not that they can't cheer. They just can't really stake much of a claim to being a fan of figure skating by hoping to see falls. They also can't stake much of a claim to good sportsmanship.

It's just tacky behavior and small. I am not saying that it's evil. I have seen evil and that's not it. IMO, some "fans" just aren't seeing these skaters as real human beings. I think they look on them as actors or robots. The competition is a show put on for their amusement. To them, the falls don't hurt; the tears aren't real; and the heartbreak is over by the time they hit the parking lot. Maybe, I want to believe that it's just being insensitive, rather than a true lack of compassion. However, when you do feel compassion for the skater's pain, the gloating is really hard to take.
 
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I partially agree with your first paragraph. But, once again, what difference is there between the tears or heartbreak of a disappointed skater and the heartbreak of the opposing basketball team or football team not making the playoffs/winning the championship? The home crowd is cheering their pants off for the home team. Also, all the time in sports there are teams that many LOVE to cheer against. They may have their home team but is it fair to say they are not a fan of the sport?

Overall I agree with you, but only because I don't exactly put figure skating in the category of sports. But definitely, there are those that watch only for the falls. And I guess you're right in calling those people nonfans of FS. However, I don't think any of those people post here at a forum like this. IMO you have to have SOME vested interest in figure skating to be a regular poster at a figure skating forum.
 
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You can be a fan of a figure skater and not have that depth of feeling for the sport itself. In that case, your connection to sport is mainly through the performances of the favored skater(s). After 30+ years of following skating, I can truthfully say that it's the skating that matters the most to me. I am a figure skating fan. Skaters come and go. I love the sport regardless.

As for sports teams, cheering against athletes is always tacky. That's different than cheering for them. Good sportsmanship is universal. I also believe true fans of any sport would rather see the best wage battles with their best efforts. Again, when your main connection to the sport is through a team, it's not the same as loving the sport for it's own qualities.
 
I can see your point there. For example I am a fan of the Houston Astros but I can't say I'm a huge fan of baseball itself. OTOH, I'm a basketball fan and can watch and appreciate just about any good NBA matchup, not just games where the Houston Rockets are playing.
 
Red Dog said:
It's clear to me that there's still some sensitivity in many people coming out of all this post-Worlds talk. The way some people are carrying on you'd think it was Sashafans. What happened has happened, let's leave it in the past everyone and focus on what actually happened and how it bodes for the future. JMO
:laugh: Red Dog! You know you're my favorite dog on GS, but who are you to tell others to "move on"? Coming from the poster who posted countless times for I forget how many weeks repeatedly trying to explain something about Kwan fans to Kwan fans that "they just didn't understand," I have three words for you: pot, kettle, black. :laugh:

Seriously, I think the post-Worlds talk is on its last vowels. If some of us are still talking about Sasha, maybe we have reasons you "just wouldn't understand." ;)

Just stick to The Edge and other non-Worlds folders and you won't have to read it. You're strong, you can get through this, RD, I have faith in you!

Rgirl
 
Red Dog said:
So, to use the same analogy, why can't fans of one skater cheer when another skater fails? Just living up to my custom title here. Skating is a sport, you say, right? So...why not?
Red Dog, I am not even going to go there with you. The one thing I do hope is that you know the difference and if you don't then I feel sorry for you and the people you're upholding to spread vile things on this board.

I so respect Sk8addict, SusanBeth and Rgirl for standing up for what they believe in. I think SusanBeth said it so well
SusanBeth said:
As for sports teams, cheering against athletes is always tacky. That's different than cheering for them. Good sportsmanship is universal. I also believe true fans of any sport would rather see the best wage battles with their best efforts. Again, when your main connection to the sport is through a team, it's not the same as loving the sport for it's own qualities.

Dee
 
Dee4707 said:
Red Dog, I am not even going to go there with you. The one thing I do hope is that you know the difference and if you don't then I feel sorry for you and the people you're upholding to spread vile things on this board.

I think you missed the statement "Just living up to my custom title" in the part you just quoted there. In other words, I don't claim to support that view, I'm just bringing it up.

I'm not scared to take the unpopular side for the sake of generating some discussion. Plus, I think it's an interesting topic, if we can get past our gut emotions.
 
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sarahmistral said:
Answer: posters who talk about doing happy dances and other things they won't mention "to be polite" when watching Sasha fall, and then turn around and ask, disingenuously, why they should be called haters for rooting for Kimmie. :rolleye: Sigh. Sad state of affairs. And great posts, Doggygirl, kyla2, Rgirl, Dee, Joe, and others putting down this nonsense.

Off to threads started in a more positive spirit...
Thanks, SarahMistral. I also wanted to say, "Hey, nice to see you! I haven't bumped into you for a while." :)

"Off to threads started in a more positive spirit..." Yes indeedy. Just a couple of loose ends for me to tie up here, as in the relevant and/or positive posts.

Rgirl
 
Rgirl said:
:laugh: Red Dog! You know you're my favorite dog on GS, but who are you to tell others to "move on"? Coming from the poster who posted countless times for I forget how many weeks repeatedly trying to explain something about Kwan fans to Kwan fans that "they just didn't understand," I have three words for you: pot, kettle, black. :laugh:

Seriously, I think the post-Worlds talk is on its last vowels. If some of us are still talking about Sasha, maybe we have reasons you "just wouldn't understand." ;)

The second paragraph there is enough reason for me to just shovel this in the ground. :laugh: It's over now. But if you think about it, though, I said the same thing about Kwan fans jumping to conclusions about other posters, thinking they are Kwan haters when they are not. I'm doing the same for some of these people who are labelled Sasha haters but probably aren't. Now, in saying this I am excluding a couple of posters, so keep that in mind
 
Red Dog said:
I'm not scared to take the unpopular side for the sake of generating some discussion.
Generating discussion is one thing, spreading vile is another. Bad Dog!!

Dee
 
It's NOT spreading "vile". I'm sorry, it's not. Just because the opinion here is not the majority does NOT make it vile! Good god.

As defending Sasha becomes more of a popular thing here, I think I'll once again be in the minority, standing up for those who aren't hating but are making legit statements. :p
 
Red Dog said:
you know, this is really odd. This condemning of Sasha "haters" would NEVER have happened here two years ago (or even six months ago). Although I think the INTENTION of the post was maybe ill-intended, there was nothing I saw that would really make me mad. I don't think I've ever cheered when a skater has fallen (not even Irina in Torino), but I think it's a thing that certain fans might SUBCONSCIOUSLY do in their minds if they want their favorite to win. Of course some simply enjoy the skating of others, but there are some out there that want victory for their fave and will cheer or be happy when her competitiors fail. And- here is the news- this is SPORT, guys. We cheer when an opposing basketball team misses a free throw or the opposing football team throws an interception, right? (This is fan talk in particular, NOT the players themselves.) So, to use the same analogy, why can't fans of one skater cheer when another skater fails? Just living up to my custom title here. Skating is a sport, you say, right? So...why not?
The subject of "Figure skating is a SPORT! We're supposed to hate the other guy!" comes up about once a year or so. Don't worry, I won't rehash already rehashed opinions, but I will say that figure skating is unique in that it combines sport and artistry, which are diametrically opposed.

Artistic expression involves the bearing of one's heart and soul, among other things intrinsic to the skater's personality and sense of self. You yourself talked about Kimmie getting a personality next season, albeit with tongue-in-cheek, I realize.

Anyway, I think there is true hate--like what Jackie Robinson and Hank Aaron experienced from baseball "fans"--but what there is mostly is a kind of "sports anger." which, IMO, is a kind of sport in and of itself, a kind of "play" anger. Of course I realize millions if not billions of people around the world will kill people over a soccer match. But I personally have no interest in that kind of sport. Even in high school, during my crazed pro football fan phase, I never "hated" the other guys. The angriest I got was over my team when they played so badly they lost a no-brainer!

Getting back to just the artistic aspect of figure skating, effective artistic performance usually requires that the skater reveal his/her deepest and often most vulnerable feelings. Unlike a tennis player or golfer, skaters are sharing themselves heart and soul with the judges and audience. To know that fans hate you, that they "do a happy dance" when you fail at Worlds or the Olympics, events the skater has dedicated himself to winning or achieving certain goals at for years and sometimes decades, calls for the skater to have a rare combination of character traits.

Skaters need to have to be willing to reveal their emotional vulnerability while performing, yet be able to steel themselves against the constant criticism. I've always felt especially bad for skaters, even those I don't like, who win Worlds or the Olympics against the country's more favored skater, only to get negative press or a negative attitude from the USFSA for winning. I feel bad for such skaters because they do what they've always been told and have always seen as the thing you're supposed to do--and such skaters usually do so at a young age. So if they win, they're bashed; if they lose they're bashed.

It gets complex--see the second part of the post of yours from which I quoted, p7, Post #104--but let's save it for a summer thread, if anybody still cares, lol. The long and short of it is, IMO, figure skating is a horse of a different color. Because skating is a hybrid--part sport, part art, part entertainment--it's more difficult for some people, especially those from a strictly sports background, to understand, "Why shouldn't I just hate the skaters I want to? Isn't that what sport is?" IMO, the question should be, "Is figure skating what sport is, strictly speaking?" I'd include the old jawbone, "What is bashing?" but once people start discussing each other, they just end up bashing each other.

Red Dog, p4, Post #48:
Cohen was not made to be a champion- simple as that. Yes, I think going on and on about how much she sucks for not winning in a weak field is not a good thing, but it's not a bash IMO to say things like competition is not for her or she should find something else to do that makes her happy.
I don't know if the jury is in on your first statement. But I do agree with everything else you say here.

Laterz,
Rgirl
 
it's an interesting point you bring up about the skaters being vulnerable on the ice. But I only think this phenomenon occurs with SOME skaters. There are skaters who DO put their heart and soul on the ice (think Kwan), and skaters who skate with speed, tech and power but not as much emotional impact (think Slutskaya, Meissner at 06 worlds). I'm not sure really how much this emotional thing is a factor, but I'd like to ask one of these skaters how they feel about it. The exhibition piece is all about heart and soul (entertainment) but I see the COMPETITIVE aspect as this: You're out there COMPETING on the ice to beat everyone else. Now with the Cop tech typically wins over an emotional skate. JMHO, though
 
Red Dog said:
standing up for those who aren't hating but are making legit statements. :p
Why do you think you have to do that?? Just curious.

Dee
 
Dee4707 said:
Why do you think you have to do that?? Just curious.

Well, it's sort of a "I know what it's like" feeling type of thing. You all know what has happened to me, I won't repeat it. So it's kind of natural for me now to defend posters who I believe are being jumped on but have legitimate points to make.
 
03-30-2006, 09:58 PM #62

lutzloop said:
I went to two practices to see Sasha at worlds.. At the first one, she was the only skater who didn't show up...it was the day before the long program. I then went to the practice the day of the long program and she did show up. I watched her the entire time and she spent the practice doing single jumps and skating slowly without any focus and direction. I also watched her in the qualifying, short and long program warmups and competition. It was the same thing. There is something not right with her. She was very sluggish and looked absolutely exhausted. She didn't talk to her coach and basically did her own thing.

I couldn't help but wonder if there was something physically wrong. In the last year, she has lost a lot of weight to the point that you can count all of her ribs both from the front and the back. Based upon by personal knowledge of other skaters who were diagnosed with eating disorders, I really have to wonder if she is facing similar challenges. I am very worried about her because her spark and attack were seriously missing from worlds. Hopefully, it is something far more simple....just plain tiredness from a very long season. I truly hope that is the case as I am a huge Sasha fan.
Hi Lutzloop,
I'm sad to hear what you saw, but I'm glad to hear it from somebody who was actually there and close. Whatever the cause, being able to see the ribs through the back is not good.

As many here know, I've been driving people crazy saying "Sasha's too thin" for the last couple of seasons. Anything more than cursory discussion should be on another thread, in another folder, and it should be emphasized that no one should post that a skater has an eating disorder unless the skater has released that info through her--or his; yes, men have EDs--agent or PR person. Doing so can put both the poster and GS at risk for a lawsuit. Just a friendly reminder.

Besides, a lot of things can cause excessive weight loss and loss of energy, but for what it's worth, even when I saw Cohen's SP at Worlds I thought she looked physically exhausted. It was as if there was no light behind her eyes. In the LP, when Sasha skated very badly, it looked to me as if she was stroking on fumes.

Cohen has been under a lot of stress even for an elite figure skater training for the Olympics over the past few years, and not everybody's body is built to recover from stressful situations adequately. I'm not saying this is Sasha's problem; I don't know. I have my hypotheses, but that's all they are. I don't know what your observations of Sasha mean; however, they do underscore my concerns for her health.

Thanks for your firsthand observations.

Rgirl, Who is Done on This Thread:)
 
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