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But that's a weakness in my character. I always hope for a well skated competition. What I don't like is for people to wish for whatever ensures a skater you don't like doesn win. I don't think threads like this one should be encouraged because it promotes hate instead of like. Even if that wasn't the intent of the original poster. I just don't see the need to hate enough to be happy that a skater didn't win. I know hate's a relative term but I mean it as promoting the negative for the purpose of the negative instead of a positive like the competitve placement of a favorite skater.Sorry Red Dog, I don't know what happened to you so I don't understand.Red Dog said:Well, it's sort of a "I know what it's like" feeling type of thing. You all know what has happened to me, I won't repeat it.
That's a great answer. Out of common decency I would probably do the same. But I wouldn't when someone is tryting to be cute and coy. No way!!So it's kind of natural for me now to defend posters who I believe are being jumped on but have legitimate points to make.
Dee4707 said:Sorry Red Dog, I don't know what happened to you so I don't understand.
Rgirl said:An attorney! But of course! Only a lawyer, and a good one, could so cogently state ideas that I've been aimlessly blabbing about in one overblown post after another in one beautifully constructed paragraph. That's the OGM of posts on this subject, IMO, Ant.![]()
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I hope you'll give me your permission to use it, with all proper acknowledgments of course, if I ever get into another thread in which this subject comes up again, which I hope never happens. But I'm not a pigs-can-fly kind of gal, so...
Anyway, bravo Antmanb!
Rgirl
Red Dog said:JMO. Typically my opinions are in the minority anyway. But DO realize that I'm just sort of playing DA with this post, and don't particularly support the haters in question. Just their freedom to express their opinion without getting jumped on- in a mindful way, of course. Most do, but a couple don't.
Dee4707 said:Ant, I agree about the costumes.![]()
I was just trying to put it in terms for Red Dog to understand what I was saying.
Red Dog has very selective reading skills and either doesn't like me or I am the most stupid person to walk the face of the earth. I will say though that Red Dog is one of my favorite internet people.![]()
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sk8addict said:Thank you both. I have stayed away because I knew all the HATE woould be coming out. Shame shame shame. Will Kimberly have time to learn to skate between her jumps this year or is she going to be a Surya B.
Red Dog said:you know, this is really odd. This condemning of Sasha "haters" would NEVER have happened here two years ago (or even six months ago). Although I think the INTENTION of the post was maybe ill-intended, there was nothing I saw that would really make me mad. I don't think I've ever cheered when a skater has fallen (not even Irina in Torino), but I think it's a thing that certain fans might SUBCONSCIOUSLY do in their minds if they want their favorite to win. Of course some simply enjoy the skating of others, but there are some out there that want victory for their fave and will cheer or be happy when her competitiors fail. And- here is the news- this is SPORT, guys. We cheer when an opposing basketball team misses a free throw or the opposing football team throws an interception, right? (This is fan talk in particular, NOT the players themselves.) So, to use the same analogy, why can't fans of one skater cheer when another skater fails? Just living up to my custom title here. Skating is a sport, you say, right? So...why not?
SusanBeth said:It's not that they can't cheer. They just can't really stake much of a claim to being a fan of figure skating by hoping to see falls. They also can't stake much of a claim to good sportsmanship.
It's just tacky behavior and small. I am not saying that it's evil. I have seen evil and that's not it. IMO, some "fans" just aren't seeing these skaters as real human beings. I think they look on them as actors or robots. The competition is a show put on for their amusement. To them, the falls don't hurt; the tears aren't real; and the heartbreak is over by the time they hit the parking lot. Maybe, I want to believe that it's just being insensitive, rather than a true lack of compassion. However, when you do feel compassion for the skater's pain, the gloating is really hard to take.
Red Dog said:I think you missed the statement "Just living up to my custom title" in the part you just quoted there. In other words, I don't claim to support that view, I'm just bringing it up.
I'm not scared to take the unpopular side for the sake of generating some discussion. Plus, I think it's an interesting topic, if we can get past our gut emotions.
More than a little late here, but just to make a couple of points. Kwan lost the World title she first won in '96 to Lipinski in '97. Michelle also lost her '96 National title to Tara in '97. Then Tara won the OGM in '98 and, with a bad hip from all those 3lp/3lps, her physicians believe, but which probably nailed the OGM for her, turned pro to skate with SOI because, as Tara has said, she knew her hip wouldn't stand up to eligible competition.Red Dog said:Yes, there are up and down periods. But I always think the true test of a real champion is being able to take that type of performance and become even stronger. Irina did that, MK did that, S. Hughes did NOT do that. There were setbacks in the process, but eventually MK and IS were able to bounce back and top their previous bests.
Thanks, Ant. Being able to use or refer to it will save me a lot of writing and, even more important, posters a lot of reading of overly written and confused attempts to say the same thing.antmanb said:There isn't an emoticon for blushing is there?!
Awwww - thanks Rgirl that's a very nice compliment - of course you can use it (flattery will get you everywhere!) !!

Rgirl said:You are correct that Michelle went on to top her previous bests, at least under the 6.0 system. One point about champion Irina, however; whom I've loved since the first time she skated on US TV, which was when she won '97 Euros, IIRC. Irina won Euros a total of seven times, which is a record, and she beat Michelle at a number of GPFs. But Irina did not win Worlds until 2002, her sixth try, after coming in 2nd most times, but when through a period sometime between around '98 and '00 or '01 (I don't know the exact years, so if someone does, I'd appreciate the info) when she was only winning bronze or not even on the podium. Puberty hit Irina's body hard, so hard that she questioned whether she even wanted to keep skating. But, as we know, Irina came back and the rest is history. Sadly every LP she skated in competition from Moscow Worlds even through '06 Euros would have won the OGM. The same can be said of Michelle, especially in the '02 OWG. But as Joe so gently reminds us, lol, the skating that counts is what happens that night.
Perhaps the underdogs often win the OGM because they don't expect to win and perhaps don't train with such a stressed mindset, and may even not train as hard. Shizuka's "Nessum Dorma" was significantly watered down in terms of jump content. Even her new coach, Morozov, has been quoted as saying that when Arakawa called to ask him to coach her in December, "I didn't think she could win [the Olympics]." As Kurt Browning said on I believe the "Season Review" show, only in figure skating does the way a skater feels about himself as a person so greatly affect how he's able to compete, or words to that effect. And I couldn't agree more.
But I digress. Anyway, with Irina and Michelle, we have the benefit of 20/20 hindsight through three Olympic cycles. With Sasha, her first major international event was the '02 Olympics, at which she finished 4th, which was considered by the media to be either a failure or at least a disappointment. (Prior to that she'd competed in GPS events, but those weren't considered "major.") When she finished 4th again at '02 Worlds, because Sarah Hughes wasn't there, "just" Michelle and Irina ("just" lol), her finish was again considered a failure because Sasha lost to Fumie Suguri, the Japanese National champion. From that point on, no matter how Sasha did in any other event all season, if she didn't win Worlds she was considered a failure.
The common "recipe" for how to gain confidence is to do something well, receive acknowledgment for doing it well, and improving in some way over time on that task or activity. Sasha has lived up to all the ingredients for gaining confidence except one: shee never received acknowledgment for doing well or improving. When she won World silver, the media headlines and commentators' responses, at least in the US, were that she "lost World gold again." She used to make significant mistakes in both the SP and LP at every event and, at Worlds, also in the Q round. In '03, '04, and '05, she improved not only on how clean she skated each phase of the competition, ie, clean SPs, fewer and less significant mistakes in the LP, and even a whistle clean Q round in '04, IIRC, but she also improved her performance quality. She skated with more relation to the audience and more noticeable joy in the moment. But the media and commentators still looked only at the color of the medal, silver, even against an unbeatable LP skate by Irina in '05. From the '02 Olympics on, Sasha never "won" anything according to the media and commentators. Even when she won '06 USN on the heels of the flu, her LP lacked "spark" according to Peggy Fleming, plus she "fell off the beam" said Dick Button when she stepped out of her 3sal/stp/3sal sequence and she only won, said many in the media, because Michelle wasn't there. Button however, did praise Sasha for the focus he saw in her.
My point is that Sasha was never given acknowledgment for her wins, even when she deserved it. Without that acknowledgment from "the powers that be," it is virtually impossible to build confidence and without confidence, improvement and interest in competition eventually end.
So I don't know if Sasha wasn't "made to be a champion," as you say RD, or if the champion traits of her personality got too worn down by lack of acknowledgment of her improvements and/or successes. Basically a nature vs. nurture, or lack of nurture, question.
Personally I think that saying "Sasha just wasn't made to be a champion" is looking at her too simplistically. However, whether she was made to be one or not, the fact is the circumstances that have surrounded and affected her are what they are and I don't think they will ever change unless Sasha starts skating clean SP/LPs every time and bringing home World gold every year for the next three years.
Rgirl said:Thanks, Ant. Being able to use or refer to it will save me a lot of writing and, even more important, posters a lot of reading of overly written and confused attempts to say the same thing.
BTW, get ready to need that blushing emoticon again because I think your post #130 on this page is another award winner. Too bad GS isn't into giving awards to gold, silver, and bronze posts of the season from various folders.
I've tried tackling the "Fans hate the other guy in every other sport" assertion a number of times, but once again, what I really wish is that I'd written yours.
But since I didn't, I hope you'll give you permission again to use it with proper acknoldgments or at least refer to it. You should charge royalties. With myself along, you could probably make anywhere from 10 to 50...cents.:yes: Sorry, but I know the royalty rates all too well unless you're Tom Clancy or one of those dudes.
Also, ITA with your post on Kimmie and Surya. Now, after seeing Surya skate live with COI in her prime, I saw her skating in a completely different light. When she was out there skating a partly choreographed, mostly improvised program to the most beautiful and unique opera arias, looking absolutely stunning in a blue unitard (then not allowed in eligible skating), with a body that was so lean and muscular (but not bulky) that her percent body fat probably couldn't even be measured given the standard error, well, I fell in love, as did the entire audience. I went to COI every year starting in the late '80s (it had a long unwieldy name then) and every time Surya skated, the audience gave her a well-deserved standing ovation.
However, I still couldn't stand to watch her compete. She didn't even look like the same skater.
I've also seen Kimmie skate live with COI last spring and I have no idea where the comparison with Surya comes from. Surya was all hurky-jerky movement and no edges. Kimmie is smooth, sophisticated for her age, has a lithe gir-next-door look, and edges to die for. Hopefully puberty won't ruin that, but at least over the past year, Kimmie's skating in competition and on tour has given me nothing but pleasure.
Kudos again for yet another superb post. If I need any legal work....
Rgirl
Rgirl said:But I digress. Anyway, with Irina and Michelle, we have the benefit of 20/20 hindsight through three Olympic cycles. With Sasha, her first major international event was the '02 Olympics, at which she finished 4th, which was considered by the media to be either a failure or at least a disappointment. (Prior to that she'd competed in GPS events, but those weren't considered "major.") When she finished 4th again at '02 Worlds, because Sarah Hughes wasn't there, "just" Michelle and Irina ("just" lol), her finish was again considered a failure because Sasha lost to Fumie Suguri, the Japanese National champion. From that point on, no matter how Sasha did in any other event all season, if she didn't win Worlds she was considered a failure.
The common "recipe" for how to gain confidence is to do something well, receive acknowledgment for doing it well, and improving in some way over time on that task or activity. Sasha has lived up to all the ingredients for gaining confidence except one: shee never received acknowledgment for doing well or improving. When she won World silver, the media headlines and commentators' responses, at least in the US, were that she "lost World gold again." She used to make significant mistakes in both the SP and LP at every event and, at Worlds, also in the Q round. In '03, '04, and '05, she improved not only on how clean she skated each phase of the competition, ie, clean SPs, fewer and less significant mistakes in the LP, and even a whistle clean Q round in '04, IIRC, but she also improved her performance quality. She skated with more relation to the audience and more noticeable joy in the moment. But the media and commentators still looked only at the color of the medal, silver, even against an unbeatable LP skate by Irina in '05. From the '02 Olympics on, Sasha never "won" anything according to the media and commentators. Even when she won '06 USN on the heels of the flu, her LP lacked "spark" according to Peggy Fleming, plus she "fell off the beam" said Dick Button when she stepped out of her 3sal/stp/3sal sequence and she only won, said many in the media, because Michelle wasn't there. Button however, did praise Sasha for the focus he saw in her.
My point is that Sasha was never given acknowledgment for her wins, even when she deserved it. Without that acknowledgment from "the powers that be," it is virtually impossible to build confidence and without confidence, improvement and interest in competition eventually end.
Rgirl