Well, according to Jackson's fitting FAQ, a men's medium width is the same as my width in a women's, so I wouldn't even need to get custom skates... I'll definitely try that out first before getting custom skates. But either way I'm saving up!
Thank you for the information!
Well, to take this a step further: I recently visited the Harlick factory to get fitted for custom boots.
I'm a purist and just went with boring white boots and natural heels. But I could have gone crazy with all the amazing offerings they now have! Boots that have animal print, boots that take a cue from bowling shoes (soooo cute), suede in a rainbow of colors, and of course custom design insertions near the ankle (a lot skaters now have these).
Definitely $$$$ but worth it if you want unique boots. If I could afford a second pair I'd probably go with purple suede and a gold lame Star Trek insignia at the ankles!