Not sure where you heard this but that's not true at all and very clearly just wishful thinking from someone who dislikes TSL.
LOL! Even though it was not an order written in stone, it most certainly is true that US fed encouraged their skaters to avoid appearing on TSL during a certain period (and some skaters have never been on for their own personal reasons). Even Jenny herself was fed up with Dave on occasion. She would probably not admit to it publicly of course. Anyway, they made up some time ago, and she has come back intermittently. Dave was holding on by the skin of his teeth for a certain period. He's definitely a survivor. He refused to let go of the platform and the opportunity. He had to get friends of his to assist, and he eventually ended up with Jonathan hosting regularly. I've always felt these two guys are way too similar as co-hosts. There's not much contrast. Plus, Jonathan for a time tended to adhere to Dave's views, but more recently Jonathan has appeared to become comfortable and confident in developing his own voice. Both of them can be extremely annoying with their quirks, tendencies and indulgences. I don't watch TSL avidly. But since TSL is a prominent and longstanding outlet for figure skating news, I will watch episodes when I have time. When I do, I often scroll through the excess OTT personal chaff that I'm not interested in listening to.
Sure, relations between Dave and some U.S. skaters may have relaxed in recent years. I've noticed that Dave has tried to clean up some of his more annoying snark in an attempt to be a bit more professional. A few years back, when Frank Carroll retired, I posted on another forum the TSL interview that Dave and Jenny had done circa 2013 with Frank (it's available on YouTube). Soon afterward, I noticed that Dave acquired a number of interviews with top coaches. LOL! I guess many of these coaches hadn't been aware of the 2013 interview Frank had done with TSL. With Frank being a legendary coach and having given TSL that lengthy 2-part interview, it was a great calling card for Dave to get other big time coaches to give him interviews.
You are certainly entitled to your views, perceptions and beliefs. I've also heard privately from people with insider knowledge, so it is what it is. You and whoever else loves TSL can spin the situation however you please. Meanwhile, I realize that TSL has a number of solid, long term fans, including quite a few well-placed people in the figure skating community who have remained in contact with Dave over the years. He has some established connections, and that's always been the case. Most of his important networking contacts came via Jenny when they initially started the interview podcast. Plus, Dave has fans from his 'Aunt Joyce's Ice Cream Stand' days. Dave and TSL have gone through a number of transformations.
I'm sure many people find TSL overall to be a helpful resource. There's a great deal of valuable archival content on the platform, including the wonderful interview with Michelle Kwan, and with many other great champions, coaches, choreographers, and even a former U.S. fed official. There are also some accomplished skaters who have never appeared on TSL. I'm aware of the private patreon content, but I'm not interested in signing up, so I don't know how often Jenny appears with Dave on patreon. I've seen her occasionally helping out on the public podcast.
Their library of interviews is quite impressive on Patreon, let alone all of their public interviews on YouTube. Skaters, especially in the US, are aware of who Dave is and yet they still go on. It doesn't minimize the crap Dave spews at times, but I think it's telling that many still go on despite initially "controversial" opinions that make fans angry but very often end up being true.
I would not characterize opinions as being true or untrue. Opinions and commentary are perceptions and viewpoints, which can sometimes be expressed overly harsh or in a snarky way. Information that is offered can be true, untrue, or simply hearsay, exaggerated gossip, or fabrication. I'm aware that a lot of information tweeted by TSL often turns out to be true. And sometimes, Dave offers predictions, but simply because some of his predictions and projections may end up occurring does not make him a genius. He's just an astute, well-connected figure skating fan, with strong views (not unlike other observant fans). The difference being that Dave has connections and a following, via a long-term figure skating platform.
You won't find every skater going on TSL. I would not be surprised to learn the names of skaters who appear on the more private patreon content. Skaters are aware that such content is for dedicated, paying fans and not available to the general public. Plus, with Jenny helping out again, she's able to draw in skaters who might not normally agree to speaking with TSL on patreon, if it was just Dave asking them.
I'm aware of the valuable archival platform, since I've followed TSL from its inception.