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- Dec 29, 2011
I guess the main problem with the terms 'feminine' and 'masculine' in figure skating is that they're mostly used in a negative sense when talking about the opposite gender. It's not rare thing to read 'I don't like Jason Brown (or Yuzuru Hanyu) because his skating is so girly', or on the other side that 'Meite isn't feminine enough, her skating isn't beautiful/good because of that'. But did anyone ever read 'I like (male) x's skating because he has nice feminine qualities?' (if someone wants to express something nice about mentioned skaters that is in a similar manner, it's phrased more 'neutral': Jasons/Yuzurus fluidity/grace; Meites power and so on).
That said, I don't think the examples TMC listed are wrong. Some are certainly debatable (which can always happen in a thread anyway), but it's true there are still certain perceptions about some qualities being inherently masculine or feminine. Now in my opinion, I don't see any problem with that, as long as it's not meant in a negative way. For a long time the perception was that males are more dominant/powerful/extroverted while women are graceful/gentle/introverted (which doesn't mean men are bearish or women are weak in return). I mean I don't know that much about origin/meaning, but even with the chinese Yin & Yang both represent a gender - among many other qualities, which are therefor associated with gender too (Yang as the male part is active, associated with the sun; Yin is the female part, passive and associated with the moon unless I'm very wrong on this, then please correct me). Has any women ever felt discriminated because femininity is associated with the moon, and not the sun?
I guess the point I'm trying to make is: biologically feminine =/= traditionally feminine in the sense mentioned in this topic (same with masculine). Just because I'm feminine doesn't mean I have to possess all those feminine qualities, or that I can't have male ones without belittling my femininity. As long as that part is clear, all's good. The bad part is when the terms are associated with a good or bad judgement.
All that said, I don't think I have any preferences in that regard when it comes to skating. I just don't think in these terms, so to speak, and am pretty blind to it
That said, I don't think the examples TMC listed are wrong. Some are certainly debatable (which can always happen in a thread anyway), but it's true there are still certain perceptions about some qualities being inherently masculine or feminine. Now in my opinion, I don't see any problem with that, as long as it's not meant in a negative way. For a long time the perception was that males are more dominant/powerful/extroverted while women are graceful/gentle/introverted (which doesn't mean men are bearish or women are weak in return). I mean I don't know that much about origin/meaning, but even with the chinese Yin & Yang both represent a gender - among many other qualities, which are therefor associated with gender too (Yang as the male part is active, associated with the sun; Yin is the female part, passive and associated with the moon unless I'm very wrong on this, then please correct me). Has any women ever felt discriminated because femininity is associated with the moon, and not the sun?
I guess the point I'm trying to make is: biologically feminine =/= traditionally feminine in the sense mentioned in this topic (same with masculine). Just because I'm feminine doesn't mean I have to possess all those feminine qualities, or that I can't have male ones without belittling my femininity. As long as that part is clear, all's good. The bad part is when the terms are associated with a good or bad judgement.
All that said, I don't think I have any preferences in that regard when it comes to skating. I just don't think in these terms, so to speak, and am pretty blind to it


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