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- Jan 28, 2013
This is probably just me being a jerk, but I had a pretty cynical reaction to Vincent's online diary-sharing.
I genuinely enjoy and encourage athletes to share their feelings or whatever in interviews or on social media - they're human beings, and they shouldn't have to shut up and smile just because their job is figure skating instead of talking.
I just think it came off as cheesy. Talking about your words and dreams from your heart, "my heart won't betray me," etc., it's just cheesy to me. I am a cynical jerk. I also personally am made unhappy when skaters apologize to their fans for disappointing us. Skaters don't owe us anything - I don't want anybody to apologize for a bad performance. It makes me feel like they have too much negative pressure on them. Don't apologize for not meeting certain people's standards! You do you, Vincent, go at your own pace. And heck, some people will never be satisfied, either because they're haters or your skating just isn't to their taste.
I certainly hope people aren't nasty enough to send him hate directly, and that his family and coaching team are keeping him from going out of his way to read negativity online.
Well, not to be harsh, but it had a certain "2 nice 2B 4gotten" junior high school quality to it.
Of course, we have to remember that as he is coming into his own as an athlete, he's also making that transition from boy to man. At some point in that journey, you learn to guard your emotions and protect your heart. Perhaps he hasn't hit that stage yet.
Half the world has to navigate those treacherous waters, and it's not easy, even out of the spotlight.
My understanding is that the other half the world also has their own navigating to do, as well, but I cannot testify to that as I haven't lived it myself.
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He could surprise at Nats, for sure, but as Mrs. P so astutely pointed out earlier, he is not a US citizen, so he won't be on the Oly team.