Most ladies are naturally more graceful?
Sure, they
think they are......
I go dancing (classes as well as for real) 5-6 times a week, and lemme tellya, t'ain't so.....
One of the reasons why I started taking classes was that I was SURE thaere HAD TO be more ladies attracted to dance classes than men - everyone else thinks so, too.
Wrong.
What actually happens in reality is that a lot of other guys have the same idea, while many of the ladies live in the belief that they are natural born graceful dancing queens and need no stinkin' classes.
Besides, dance instruction can be quite costly, especially at a studio, and men still tend to have more money than women, generally speaking.
They are also generally more willing to spend it on trying to meet the opposite sex, women tend to spend most of theirs on just themselves......
The end result is that there are often more men than women in the dance classes, which leads to a lot of really goofy looking solo dancing, and if you think someone looks weird dancing hip-hop by themselves, try watching a guy do tango without a partner......:disapp:
Yet if on the (very) odd occasion there is an extra lady or two, they frequently leave upon discovering they have to dance by themselves, even if it's only for a few minutes.
Despite the cost of the class and the financial hit they take by not practicing, even if alone.
I often hear complaints from the ladies in the dance classes about most of the guys not knowing what they're doing, not knowing how to lead, and other, less savory issues.
All I can say to that is that it cuts both ways, a lot of the more 'experienced' ladies do not follow worth a crap, they're off doing their own thing, completely disregarding whatever the guy is trying to lead.
I'm a pretty strong leader, and sometimes end up having to armwrestle some of these ladies for the lead.
Some of them are just downright combative, and very abrasive if there's the timiest little thing they don't like about you or your dancing.
Some of my favorites are actually the younger ladies who have had little or no dancing experience, they very seldom have an attitude, have no bad habits, and tend to be easy to lead, even if they've never done anything like a rumba, tango, cha cha or whatever before.
Nothing like teaching a hip-hop chick how to two-step........
