Considering Evgenia herself said, that she had her own reasons to leave without saying goodbye and without flowers (
https://nevasport.ru/37675-medvedeva-otvetila-pochemu-ne-prishla-k-tutberidze-s-tsvetami/) , makes me believe she didn't do it, whatever Bobrova comes up with a year later
The point is, there are two truths to this Eteri/Evgenia story, to each their own. You believe one side of the story, some believe the other side.
You can't understand Eteri, some can't understand Evgenia and her actions.
I think the differences in opinions stem from:
1) People not speaking russian and misunderstanding things through translations: even simple words sometimes have different connotations, which can result in people perceiving things differently.
2) Cultural differences: I think a lot of people don't understand why Evgenia received criticism in Russia, because they don't understand russian culture and mentality. There are significant differences in perceptions of the same thing, even some words, by russians and by foreigners.
3) Age differences and people being in different stages of their lives
As an older and a russian-speaking person, I understand where Eteri came from, and maybe I can understand where Evgenia came from as well.
But in my cultural view of how teachers are treated in Russia (very very respected), I think Evgenia did a big no-no so the outrage made a complete sense to me.
I remember back in the day, Denis Ten (may his soul rest in peace) commented something like "I forgive Buyanova" (basically, she ended their relationship abruptly and did not show up at his worlds, which he understandably didn't take too well). But guess what, it was Denis who got criticized for daring to think he should be forgiving someone (because it looked arrogant), and not Buyanova.
She's the teacher, and it was up to Denis to resolve the conflict amicably, not up to her. There's a sub-ordinance in teacher-student relationship in russian mind, and I think here's where the western view and russian view take completely different routes. -
I hope this example will help some to understand the russian point of view better.
And probably growing up in an atmosphere of sheer and utter respect for teachers, what she did rubbed me the wrong way.
I can see how in the western world, where it's kind of more 'contractual', it would be okay to do that, but I don't think you can expect the same from people with a completely different cultural background.
What I'm trying to do here, is to explain that maximalism ('dragging through the mud' phrases about 'over
fourth year old adult woman') is unnecessary and maybe people have such drastically different views, because after all we all grow up conditioned to some things, and it's worth it to try to understand the other side.
That being said, 'this adult woman' helped Evgenia a lot in achieving all her titles, sponsorships and money, which made training in Canada financially possible in the first place.
And for that simple fact, 'this adult woman' does not deserve to be disrespected.