Okay, lets assume Alina needs to go, question is where?
Orser is out of question for obvious reasons (also he isn't known for giving 'full attention' to his skaters), She can't go to Japan or Korea (she doesn't know Japanese/Korean and they don't know Russian), Raf is probably only logical choice but 'Emotional support' from Him? I don't know... Alina won't be first priority for Mishin either (There is Liza for that) and CSKAs results last couple of years are far from great.
Pretty much every coach with some success is too busy to spend days and nights with Alina and most of them already have star students, it's not like Eteri is only one with big team.
If she wants that 'motherly attention and love' thing, she probably needs to take huge risk and hire... Tarasova (she many times said is open to suggestions and ready to start coaching again) but that is huge gamble.
I highly doubt that Alina wants to run away from competition. Frankly, it may sound as an old school,but if your mental health gets damaged because somebody is beating you on training, then your place isn't in competitive sports, Hottest fire makes the finest steel,the better your competition is while training, the more you improve. Taking it easy never leads to improvements. Considering that Alina is a fighter, this whole 'she is getting psychological trauma seeing 15 years old jumping quads' is a bit disrespectful IMO.
P.S it makes no sesne at all for Eteri to intentionally harm/not give enough attention to Zagitova (same was true to Med), she had a historic achievement as a coach and it was still overshadowed by one bad Performance from Alina and I don't even want imagine what will happen if Alina fails at nationals. Her reputation as a coach, entirely depends on how well Alina does (it's unfair but... that is how it is) and nothing short of Moris jumping a quint (

) will overshadow Alina's bad skates