Agreed. Gracie was never an expressive skater and it feels like it's gotten worse since her comeback. If she is happy it's hard to tell. I admire her for coming back and making it this far but I feel like Cranberry was really her last opportunity to get back in it. She needed something to get her momentum going. It still may happen but it looks pretty bleak. As I said I still hope she's able to skate well at nationals--it'd be a nice way to send her off.
Re: Retirement age and all of that...
I think those of us who watched women's skating in the mid 90s to early 2010s got very used to seeing skaters who were competitive for multiple Olympic cycles. It was awesome to watch skaters grow from their junior days and mature into young women. For example, I love that I got to witness the full evolution of someone like Mao Asada who started off as a bouncy little girl and matured into an exquisite and ethereal skater. The ups and downs of her career (and others like Michelle Kwan, Carolina Kostner, Irina Slutskaya or even Ashley Wagner or Liza Tuktamysheva for that matter) are what really endeared her to me and made her victories that much sweeter.
Nowadays, there isn't as much of a chance of watching a skater mature and grow like that because their time seems to be much more limited, particularly in Russia, so everything is rushed. Of course this is due to the brutal competition there--it's super hard to stay at the top because competition is so fierce there really isn't an opportunity to have a bad year because the field will pass you by. Thus you have to win everything as quickly as you can because you may not be the best a year or even 6 months from now. I've accepted that longevity isn't really important anymore but it does make me sad as a fan of the sport. Longevity gives a fan years and years of competitions, programs and moments from their favorite skaters; that's not the case when skaters are gone a year or two in. You can look back at those few competitions but that's all you get. Of course there are shows and stuff like that but it doesn't compare to the energy of a competition IMO.