Not sure if this is the right place to ask, but I need to make up my mind before next Wednesday, Dec 4, the deadline to submit a program component list for the 2024 BC/YT Synchro and Adult competition.
To explain: A few people in BC, Ted among them, have tried a number of times to persuade me to train as a pairs judge/evaluator/specialist, since you have to have an appropriate skating background and I gather there's a dearth of us with pairs experience. I'm not that keen -- I really don't like to have people not liking me!

-- and I don't like making kids unhappy if I have to mark them down, but I do feel a certain responsibility to volunteer my services.
However. Before you start training as a judge/specialist, you have to have had competition experience as a pairs skater in the past within a certain length of years, and although I've often performed since I retired in the 1980s, I've avoided competing, figuring I'd had enough of being judged by then, between academia and skating, dance, music, etc etc etc. The upcoming BC Synchro and Adult event will be near where I live, but there are only singles events for adults. No pairs, no dance. When I pointed this out, there was some discussion, I gather, and my partner and I were told we'd be allowed to enter as the only pair and just be judged as if it were a test. We already have a program worked up for our club show in December, and my costume is ready, so that's not a problem. But our program components are at Skate Canada's Adult Masters level, so they'd need to bring in some sort of judge(s) qualified for that level to make it legal. Um. So if we said we'd appear, we'd have to go through with it to justify the effort being made just for me. (My partner doesn't want to get into judging.)
I'm torn. It's a chance to give our program an extra performance even though it's essentially just for an exhibition. But I'm not even positive I want to go over to the dark side and become a judge, I just feel I *should*. If I don't do this event next month, I'll have to wait almost a year even to attend a clinic and start training and will probably ditch the idea.
Help? Will I be shunned on GS if I become a judge

?