
I get what you're saying. I usually try never to get too invested in teams or skaters. I have admired many and been an active fan over the years for a number of skaters. Recently, I got emotionally invested in a team, and my heart will never be the same. I was surprised at the grief that overtook me when they were forced to split. I think it's related to the loss of innocence and possibility (that they magically imparted). Such a feeling of loss hits doubly hard during these strange and fractious times we're living through. Plus, being an older fan, there are fewer years to enjoy skaters that make me happy.
I'm very angry at the sports' handlers who botch over and over again truly protecting and fully supporting athletes. It definitely hurts emotionally when splits, injuries or bad luck happens, if you are too invested in young teams. Even if you just like and admire teams and skaters, it's saddening when they aren't able to realize full potential due to different things happening. Being deeply invested, the emotions can really grab at your heart. It's tough.
I am very disillusioned with the sport and how it's run. Yet, for me, it's the skaters and the joy at the essence of what drives these athletes that keeps me watching and rooting for them. 🎗
In the case of recent specific splits and repartnerings, I am less saddened. I think many of the recent repairings have the potential to be exciting, inspiring, and growth-expanding for the skaters. While I liked and admired LaLa's talent, in recent years, they have not been inspired or fully engaging to me as a team. How their trajectory as partners has been explained also makes their split seem necessary, inevitable, and revitalizing. I am excited about all of the new ice dance partnerships for Canada. Plus, I'm over the moon happy for how Piper & Paul ended their apparently final Olympic season so joyfully and victoriously.
I don't mind so much if the partnership ends because of retirement, because then you know the skater is at peace with stopping. (Whether their partner is or not is another matter!) Of course, you don't want somebody to get injured, but when it does happen, yes you lament what might have been, but you can accept it because it can't be helped.
But when they just split, it is different. How you feel about it depends on the circumstances and the reasoning. If they are not getting on with each other, they are better off with somebody else. And the same goes if the partner has been misbehaving. If they are splitting because the partnership has ran it's natural course, well, it's disappointing but it's understandable. Even if we as fans think that they had more to give.
But too often, you get the impression that one or both of the partners are coming in expecting instant success. They don't seem to accept that it takes time for a partnership to gel and grow. And when the success doesn't come right away, they go looking for somebody else with whom they could have instant success. When, who knows, if they had stuck with it, it might have come good. And that is what I find frustrating and annoying.
It is that impression that I am getting from a lot of the splits that have been happening not just in the past few months, but in the past few years.
I guess it's a reflection of modern society, particularly amongst the generation these skaters are from.
Because of all this, I am trying to avoid getting invested now.
I totally understand your frustration and am so sorry for the breakup of your team. I have always loved reading your posts keeping them forefront in our minds. I would read the latest news from you and feel your pride. Perhaps you can join us in shared custody of Emilia Zingas & Vadym Kolesnik - and keep reminding us of her genealogy.
Thank you for your kind words,
@labgoat.
I suppose I'm kinda the opposite of what was being discussed in the nostalgia thread - I feel pride in skaters from a country that is not my own!
I just really like supporting athletes that represent countries which do not have a lot of history or success in the sport. I love an underdog, doing their best against the odds.
Yes, the skaters we are discussing are both originally from one of the superpowers of this sport. But, Angelina in particular may as well be a native. Not only has her family lived in Cyprus for donkey's years, but I read an interview with her last year, and she really is your typical girl from Cyprus.
And don't worry, I am going to keep reminding you all about both Emilea and Vadym's backgrounds.
CaroLiza_fan