Re:Johnny's Bollywood
When I first saw the picture of his outfit I was D: because srsly, peacock? how stereotypical/cliche can you get. I still don't like the costume, but when I actually saw the program, I wasn't so offended, because it was more Bollywood than anything, and certain moves I thought were used well and I liked some parts [is it just me or is he less polished than he used to be?], and really, it's not like we're going to see a lot of my people proskating anyway... so yeah, idc about the program but the costume still annoys me. It's not so much appropriation just cliche/stereotyping. I mean it could sort of be distortion, since we have peacock dances, but the costumes are blue... so it might be kinda stretching it lol.
The bindi is a whole other thing though
Look, we (and all other cultures during colonisation) were striped of our right to our culture, our religion. we were discriminated against if we practiced it, in some countries it became illegal. The only way to survive was to pretend to be something we weren't. Why isn't it a big deal when we wear western things? because historically, we never wanted to in the first place. A lot of things were lost. You seem to think that if caucasians can wear my things, the discrimination will go away. But it won't. I don't care if caucasains can wear things or no. I just want to be able to wear things. Do you think I could wear a saree to work/on the street? Do you think a caucasian could wear a saree to work? That's a trick question: it doesn't matter, because the only time they seem to want to wear these things is halloween, parties and performances. My culture is not a costume. Wearing it as a costume is not going to make it less exotic. It makes it more exotic. It's not going to 'normalise' anything. It's a okay if someone from that culture gives you permission, or you respect and research, and ASK. That's the way to go: the only thing that will make things change is knowledge, and respect, and friendship.
Resources were stolen, and we were left in poverty, and a lot of things have not been given back. Even today, people make fake 'traditional' things and sell them, wouldn't you consider it stealing? It is not theirs to profit out of.
Some things have special meaning. Wouldn't you consider it bad if someone wore war medals that weren't theirs?