Story that Jason tells related to the one man, or not so many men, comps, and how they helped Jason determine his sporting passion:
As a boy, Jason played many sports, including soccer. His soccer travel team did well and went to the playoffs. They lost a game, maybe the championship game. All his teammates were upset, and Jason's reaction was, why are you so upset, it's just a soccer game.
The next weekend, Jason goes to a skating competition. As he tells, it, some novice competition with one or two other boys and five people in the audience, three of whom were his relatives. He did not skate as well as he wanted. He was upset.
Then it dawned on him, how the other boys felt about soccer, he felt about skating. He had found his passion.
So the "no competition" competitions can be very important.
(paraphrasing from a podcast).