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Definitely interesting words by Mark. And I do agree it's important to take everything said on TSL with a grain of salt. Despite DL's insider sources, he often puts a spin on things that's in his head, and not necessarily accurate. There's always a lot that goes on behind-the-scenes and interactively on a personal level which the larger public, and in this case fans of figure skating who are not directly a part of rink environments, would not really know about.
On the other hand, it is often in rink environments where gossip begins and then spreads, accurate or not. I think there should be a lot more guidelines, transparency and overall policies instituted within rink environments to help cut down on some of the emotional and physical abuses that have gone on for years, and that have continued to surface and re-surface.
I'm not saying that what happened in this current partner switch involves any kind of abuse situation. I'm simply reminded of a wide variety of recent issues at various rinks, which leads me to feel that there should probably be guidelines and more transparency involved in rink management and with interaction between athletes and coaches, etc.
Mark's words in his Instastory still beg the question as to why the split occurred between him and Brynne. They looked to be doing well, so why the split? T.J. has been looking for a partner for awhile since his split with Sarah Feng (another unexplained situation). Post Sarah, T.J. trained with a young Russian partner for awhile, and that didn't work out. Then there was reportedly a tryout between T.J. and Haven Denney. And then the abuse allegations against T.J. surfaced online. Subsequently, the partnership with Denney didn't materialize, which could have been due to any number of reasons.
It was never officially reported whether it was Sarah who decided to move on for personal reasons. Or was it that she was simply dropped for personality reasons, or because Sappenfield and T.J. felt something more technical or physical wasn't working with the partnership? Sarah often looked like she wasn't happy in the kiss 'n cry.
As a fan of pairs skating, I'd love to know why Brynne has been partnered with T.J.? Is it a personality thing? Did they hit it off privately and decided they wished to skate together, and then broke it to Mark? Whatever happened, Mark apparently doesn't seem to be bothered about it. Had Mark originally trained in Colorado as a singles skater, and then he moved to Florida when he first partnered with Brynne, or did he train in Florida originally?
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Checking in on Mark's Instagram, he appears to be a happy, well-adjusted young man who makes friends easily. Good luck to him on his figure skating journey!