I don't really ascribe to the whole "Arthur is a narcissist who only cares about wins and glory and doesn't care about what Alysa wants" narrative. By all accounts from people who actually know them in real life, as well as Alysa's own statements and conduct, Arthur and Alysa have a healthy father-daughter relationship.
My best guess is that Arthur's urgency for Alysa to do well internationally stems from financial considerations.
Arthur is a single dad, working as an immigration attorney (so not necessarily rolling in money), raising five kids. Figure skating is an insanely expensive sport, USFSA funding is piss poor, and it wouldn't be fair to his other children for Arthur to bankrupt himself on Alysa's skating, especially as the children are getting older and college (another insanely expensive endeavor) is looming on the horizon. So if Alysa wants to keep skating, she will need sponsors, who don't tend to pour money into skaters who finish 4th and 5th at GP events. Being the top U.S. woman isn't enough anymore. Bradie was the obvious top U.S. woman for years and hasn't had any major sponsorships AFAIK. Perhaps, if the trade-off was between a more relaxed training environment and being able to keep skating long term, Arthur felt the latter was more aligned with his daughter's desires.
It's a terribly misguided decision for sure, IMO, but I don't think it's fair to make him out to be some sort of evil narcissistic crazy skating parent given the information that we have.
My best guess is that Arthur's urgency for Alysa to do well internationally stems from financial considerations.
Arthur is a single dad, working as an immigration attorney (so not necessarily rolling in money), raising five kids. Figure skating is an insanely expensive sport, USFSA funding is piss poor, and it wouldn't be fair to his other children for Arthur to bankrupt himself on Alysa's skating, especially as the children are getting older and college (another insanely expensive endeavor) is looming on the horizon. So if Alysa wants to keep skating, she will need sponsors, who don't tend to pour money into skaters who finish 4th and 5th at GP events. Being the top U.S. woman isn't enough anymore. Bradie was the obvious top U.S. woman for years and hasn't had any major sponsorships AFAIK. Perhaps, if the trade-off was between a more relaxed training environment and being able to keep skating long term, Arthur felt the latter was more aligned with his daughter's desires.
It's a terribly misguided decision for sure, IMO, but I don't think it's fair to make him out to be some sort of evil narcissistic crazy skating parent given the information that we have.