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- Nov 28, 2020
I don’t dictate to others what they should respect. But it’s a two way street.Wow, okay. From everything you've said, including the above quote, you are very fixated on your own enjoyments in a cold-blooded way, without any thought or caring for how you get to see what floats your boat. FYI-- the sport does have rules and regulations regardless of whether or not they are adequately arrived at, effectively monitored, or equitably and fairly enforced.
As well, whether you realize it or not, there is a code of ethics involved in coaching. Some things are a matter of human decency. As I said earlier, the best coaches to me, are those who care about their students as people first, and as athletes second.
My enjoyment of figure skating is bound up with getting to know the skaters and going with them vicariously on their journey. Understanding something about an athlete makes it more fulfilling for me when celebrating their victories, and during the process of supporting them through all the ups and downs of their journey.
Watching fave skaters win medals can be sweet and very satisfying. But ultimately, for me, it's about the skaters' journeys in their individual totalities, not about the podium pitstops, or lack thereof, along the way.
You can respect whatever you so desire. You can't dictate to others what they should or shouldn't respect.
I am not the one calling for schools to be closed because they teach their students in a way I don’t like. I am not the one placing moral judgements on the coaches or skaters I don’t like.
I advocate for everyone to do it their way and then we get together and see who does it better.
It’s still a sport after all, that’s why they keep score. And results matter.
And yes, it may be more cold blooded, but I never cheer for injures or take satisfaction in them.
In fact, I don’t event root for falls. I want my favorites to win while beating their competition at their best.

