Recent interview with Lena. Despite her moms frequent shenanigans, Lena seems to have a good head on her shoulders
The rising star of world figure skating spoke to Sport-Express about international isolation, coach Evgeni Plushenko, patriotism, and her relationship with her mother.
Elena Kostyleva is a unique figure in Russian figure skating. On the one hand, she is a Russian junior champion, performs quadruple and triple Axels, and is rightfully considered one of the leading rising stars. On the other hand, she is constantly at the center of controversy. In particular, her mother, Irina, has already become one of the most controversial figures in the figure skating world after a series of accusations against other families and coaches.
This is precisely why I wanted to speak directly with Elena herself—to hear her perspective on the situation and give fans the opportunity to separate the athlete from the figure surrounded by emotional judgments. From all our conversations, both recorded and unrecorded, I got the impression that the younger Kostyleva has a strong independent opinion and doesn't always agree with her mother's actions. At the same time, the discussions in Telegram chats around the rink hardly distract her from her sport and development.
Zoomers? Who are they?
— Elena, how does it feel to perform in big shows?
"I really like the atmosphere of ice shows. I can say I'm happy."
Evgeni Plushenko celebrated his birthday on Monday as part of the show. What would you wish him and how would you describe him?
"I'd like to wish him good health, for his work to bring him happiness, for us to bother him less and for him not to waste so much time on us. For him not to get angry with us."
(Laughs.)
What is he like? If I had to choose three words, it would be... Fair, honest... Four would be better. Calm and kind. Very kind. This is what sets him apart from many other coaches.
— Does kindness help in high-performance sports at all?
"It depends. He doesn't overdo it with kindness. If an athlete doesn't hear after the third or fourth time, he might stop making comments or raise his voice a little."
— Which approach do you consider more effective—tough, kind, or some other?
"It's better for me to just explain calmly if something isn't working. Well, sometimes you need to yell, yes. We all have those moments when we get a little slack and need to be brought back into focus."
— There's a saying that athletes mature early. Do you feel like a grown-up?
"No, I'm not trying to grow up fast. I'm certainly not a 7-8 year old, but I wouldn't call myself an adult."
— Buzzer?
- And who are these?
— Let's say, young guys who like to make TikToks.
- Oh, no, I'm not like that.
Here Irina Kostyleva joins the conversation:
"She's still just a child. She can't make her bed or brush her teeth. It's a good thing she has a servant in me."
— She's lying. I brush my teeth, I make my bed. It's not true.
There's a feeling there's no room for growth. Why are we being kept locked up?
— What does Elena Kostyleva's day look like in general?
— I get up around 7:50. I have breakfast, get ready for training, and off I go. I train—warm-up, ice, and if anything hurts, I do various procedures, like physical therapy. The training session lasts an hour and 15 minutes. Then I rest for about three hours, take a break, eat, and then warm-up—training—rest again. Sometimes there's a third training session, but not always. At the end of the day, there's a cool-down, physical therapy, and then home to rest. And I have one day off.
— Do you have time for anything else besides sports? Reading a book?
— More on the phone... I don't read books, to be honest. I don't have the energy for that.
— Do you even consider having a life outside of figure skating? If not a figure skater, then who?
— Artistic gymnastics, perhaps. But I only see myself as a figure skater, nothing else. I can't see myself outside of figure skating.
Irina: "Is it worth spreading yourself too thin if you're only good at one thing? A career in sports requires several components: health—we've already experienced this ourselves; talent—without it, you can't even start, it's a tragedy for both the child and the parent; hard work; and, perhaps, luck."
How do you manage to adapt so quickly when changing coaches? Many athletes report a long adaptation period.
"For me, it's nothing special, just the usual process. I communicated well with all the coaches. I can't describe why. I immediately start trying hard, giving it my all. I do what I'm told, and because of that, the coach takes an interest in me, and we become closer. Even Eteri Georgievna and I had easy communication."
Irina: "She's the one who noticed us. We went to Rozanov in May, but he didn't take her. Then I went to Eteri Tutberidze after the training camp in July, and she said, 'I'll take you right away, definitely. No one in the world can jump as much as you, little one.'"
— How is your health now and what are your plans for the season?
— My health is fine. I haven't felt any different since entering the season because I didn't miss anything special, only sustaining an injury in the off-season. I've already competed in a few events and felt the competitive spirit. Now I'm ready to compete in the Grand Prix. My goal for the season is to repeat last year's medal count. As for content, whether or not I'll attempt the quad loop depends on my health. I'm still worried about a minor groin injury. We're gradually getting back to the level of content I was skating at the end of last season. I don't have any long-term plans; I'm setting goals for a specific season.
— Don't you feel like you've run out of room to grow since the age limit was raised? You've won the major tournaments in Russia, but a senior career isn't imminent.
"I feel like I have no room to grow, that's true. Sasha Trusova, at my age, was already setting records and getting into the Guinness Book of Records. I was just thinking about it yesterday—how many times I could have gotten into the book, but I'm stuck in the same place, stuck in our circle. It's not even about figure skating—the same thing applies to gymnastics and football. What do hockey players have to do with it, for example? It's unfair! Even my staff is forced to stay in Russia and not travel the world. We athletes haven't broken any laws or sporting rules, but we're forced to stay indoors because of a problem I have no control over. But the situation has developed in such a way that we just have to get through it, I suppose. Of course, in my opinion, we all need to be allowed onto the international stage. That's my honest opinion."
Also, to be honest, I didn't like the increase in the age limit. It's better to reach the senior level at least at 16. Kamila Valieva competed at the Olympics at 15! I realize that at my age you can already win major competitions; they used to be won. But now I have to wait. I won't be able to jump quads at 25 like 17-year-olds. Moreover, figure skating is developing every day; young kids are starting to jump more quads because it's much easier at a young age. I realized this this year—it's really hard to get your body going, to come in the morning and jump. I felt it already at 14.
— This was the ISU’s argument.
"I understand—so that 19-year-olds don't compete against 14-year-olds, because, naturally, the kids will win. They're agile and will jump better. It's much harder to be technically proficient at 19."
At training sessions, the coach is in charge, but mom has a different role in life.
— Since you're talking about the difficulties with Russian competitions, have you ever been invited to compete for another country?
"They invited me to China in the fall of 2023. They said: two starts, and you'll be selected for the national team, we'll give you athletic citizenship. The Chinese team managers discussed the terms with us.
Irina: - I still have the number in my address book, we thought about this option.
"But I said no right away. I didn't even think about it! I was born in Russia and I want to compete under my own flag; I'm not interested in other flags. The situation with our sport has turned out that we've been shut down, although I think it's unfair. What are we, the athletes, guilty of? Why are we sitting here waiting to be released? I still can't understand."
— Do you often argue with your mother? Do you have a say?
"Yes, I expressed my opinion about the Lady Gaga costume. I wanted a different one. They didn't listen to my opinion, but in other cases it's taken into account. When they showed me the sketch, it seemed beautiful, but when they made it... I like it, but I think this look is a bit too old for me. Maybe in two or three years I'll come back to it."
You know better than me how much discussion there is about you on social media. Doesn't it distract you from your sport?
I try not to read the hate that's pouring in my direction; there's a lot of it. I went into a chat once, read it, and realized it was best not to delve into it anymore. But when I do read it, I'm completely calm. I stick to my own opinion, what's inside me. I'd rather rely on my own opinion than on other people's. But I do listen to my surroundings, both the good and the bad, as long as it's constructive. There's normal hate, which sometimes requires listening. And then there are people who just spew dirt. That's what I ignore.
— How do you find balance when your mom and your coach have different opinions?
"You definitely have to listen to your coach during training. There's a disciplined training day—and the coach is the boss there, of course. But a mom is a mom. She has a completely different role in life, outside the rink. It's incomparable. I don't care about all that noise around me—I think about the sport."
Irina: "That's why we came to Evgeny—to get him to take Lena away. We're tired of carrying everything on our own. And we're not to blame for this fuss. It's the people around us, in Telegram channels and chats. We're not causing anything."
"Oh, I don't want to hear about it. Can I go eat some cake? They'll eat it without me!"