Sean, I feel what you are saying. Although I PERSONALLY don't like that shot, I'm not necessarily OFFENDED by it. (Get the difference?)
It's a mixed bag. There are certain things (if we're to talk about things that can be interpreted "sexually") that simply drive me up the wall but others don't find it a big deal at all. At the same time, though, I just shake my head when people (usually the Christian conservatives) tend to make a BIG fuss out of things that they think are "sexually suggestive" but I find to be absolutely non-offensive. I guess it depends. I don't like this topic, anyway.