Re: What to look for in a coach?
As the mother of a 6 year old that skates 4 days a week, I have to say I have found the two most important things are: 1. you have to find the right personality for your child and 2. make sure the techniques taught are correct.
My daughter has been skating for 3 years - 2 of those in private lessons. She loves her skating and part of that I have to attribute to the fact that her coach knows when to push and when to step back and have fun with her. We're fortunate to have found the right coach (for my daughter) on the first try. I don't think you have to (for a young child) go for an olympic coach right off the bat. What I've found, as we work with her coach, that other coaches are brought in for certain things (like jumps, off ice, etc)... our rink seems to team teach a lot.
Recently my daughter was goofing off during a lesson with her "jump" coach... so I asked her why she's like this with him, but isn't goofy with her main coach... her reply "because I like him"... so I had to ask the obvious... do you not like your coach? "I like her, but she tells me to be serious and I am"...
Sorry for the long post...