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- Dec 21, 2011
So saying that she'd only be willing to play if I wasn't in charge isn't a personal attack?
I know this was settled but I really want to defend myself anyway since this whole thing left a bad taste in my mouth. Thanks to the others who defended me.
I was actually saying I didn't want to take charge if you want to organize it again, since I know it was your idea. As others said, i was actually trying to defer to you and not step on your toes. I did help score last year (which you evidently don't remember, which is okay) so I do know what was involved. It was time consuming for me, and that was all I was saying, especially because I was asked more than once (by you) to score more than one category because other people couldn't at the last minute or didn't have time due to travels (including you).
At this point, I am just going to step away from this entirely. You clearly do want to organize it again in the same way it was last year and that is okay. I will surely participate, but I probably will decline to help score in the unlikely event I'd again be asked (that is not an insult either but just a reflection of how much time I realistically have nowadays).
Anyway, I apologize if this was defensive. Best to you.