4everchan, Patrick had the winning mindset naturally, as does Nathan and most great champions. Unfortunately as he gets older, he gets smarter and realistic. The rational mind starts casting doubts. Since it was innate, he didn't know how to access it because he didn't have to. Over the years he has learned from other great athletes, e.g. He mentioned a baseball great (whose name I, a non baseball fan, forget

) who said he knew he had already won as he stepped on the plate. Patrick resonated with that mindset and presumably wanted to emulate it. He understood what the great athlete talked about.
Once such mindset is not natural and ingrained, it is easier said than done to get it back, or to get it to start with for those who never had it or only have it flickingly like you do. It's exactly like accidental satori quite a few people have experienced but can't get back into it no matter how badly they wish or try. Jim Carrey is one of them.
I remember once, after a banquette with over 500 attendees and during the entertainment, some people left and gave me a handful of ruffle tickets from their table. A few kids then went around to collect tickets left behind. I split the extra tickets with a table mate so I had 6 tickets with me. I got called for a prize and as I was receiving it, I said to the MC, "I will be back." I just felt confident about winning another prize. Numbers were called and I maintained the certainty. Just a tiny bit of doubt eventually crept in but I kept the confidence. Then I caused a stir going up for the second prize, i.e. the next to grand prize. Kids with more tickets were jealous.

I think I would have won the grand prize if not for that flicker of doubt.

This is just one of the many experiences I have had about clear and certain expectations coming true, some instantly and some requiring patience. However, any forced belief or fake confidence simple will not work. Definitely not what I call desperate optimism. It's a genuine feeling, a knowing. I either take the result for granted even as it seems a miracle to others, or it came as a total surprise when I've forgotten about it. Forgetting means non resistance too.
That's why I say if you don't genuinely believe in something and feel it in your bones, it's best not to create resistance by choosing to dwell on it with hope. Find an alternate goal and belief to focus on, one that would possibly lead you to the desired result. In any case, yes, focus on the moment, which is the process. Do your best step by step. But keep the mind open, for inspirations to better the process, and to receive unexpected goodies. Don't deliberately block the goodies. Don't limit the opportunities and don't dismiss any blessing. Michael Jackson used to work in the wee hours whenever he got an inspiration, sometimes waking his music director up to collaborate. He explained to his exasperated friend, "God gave me this music. If I don't take it, He may give it to Prince."
Act on the inspiration. But you need to be open minded to receive the inspiration.
VB... you are not understanding what I wrote

i don't blame you... it's a long and messy post...
Just a few things... yes ... young kids have this instinct. Most of them do as this kind of focus is NATURAL and accessible to all. I do not believe that some people are more natural than others in reaching that focus. Perhaps some people with attention deficit disorder have an obstacle there.
But the zone is a survival instinct in some ways. It is making you focus entirely on the one most important thing you are doing : performing.
Adrenaline kicks in and you know why artists eat very little before shows??? Because when we are performing, our other systems, digestive and what not, function at a lower rate, as adrenaline becomes the ruler of the entire body. So we eat very little, to make sure we won't be feeling stuffed of full as our metabolism slows down.....
So where I agree with you is that when growing up, people tend to rationalize what was instinctive... Patrick has been doing that at a very young age though. He was in his early 20s when he started to lose focus while performing. He was so far ahead of the game that he still managed to win. However, he didn't always perform to the best of his ability. I say this a a very big fan of Patrick as I do believe that even in some of his best programs, he didn't always reach his full potential.
The flickering I expressed having though is something you misunderstood here... even at my worse right now, I would say that I am in the zone for 90-95% of the time... even more...and when I am not there, it doesn't mean that I am messing up. Keep in mind that skaters have to focus for 4 minutes.... A pianist needs to focus for 90 minutes.
I know how to get back into it and that is the beauty of therapy : that's actually the goal of therapy is to find out why you get out of focus and how to get right back in it, without compromising the quality of your performance.
My issue with Patrick since Sochi is that whenever he has lost his focus, at times, he never gets back in it. At the same time, for knowing how long of a process it is to master this skillset, I am not surprised because he said he just started seeing a sports psychologist in January... well it takes more than a few months.... It took me almost a year to really master it, and I perform way more often than a skater does. How many competitions for Patrick in a normal year... 1 challenger, 3 gps (including GPF) Nationals, 4CC and worlds..... 7 times... that's very little to really work on this aspect of performing.
your story about the banquet and the grand prize : one major difference between performance though... Despite all your self-believe, the factor is exterior to your own control : it is about luck of the draw... not something you do yourself. You can believe in it all you want, that's great. But it has nothing to do with performing.
Well, let's see if Patrick is open minded
As you know, we have talked about this for a while now. I am extra sensitive to this particular aspect of his skating... perhaps because I do not skate myself and cannot relate to technical things. I know two things : musical interpretation... and for this Patrick is #1 in my books because he lives every note through his entire body. That is unreal for an athlete of that caliber. He is unique that way. Nobody else has caught my attention as much as he has, except perhaps the Finns (dancers Rakkamo-Kokko) and Virtue and Moir. Most skaters with good musical interpretation do not feel it with their entire body. They express it with parts of their body, often with facial expression. It's very different and I prefer Patrick's way. I also have an hypothesis of why it might be the case from hearing him play the piano... His playing is not at a high level at all.... and he expressed very little emotion while playing... pianists have a harder time to connect emotionally to their instruments because the sole point of contact is fingertips... compared to singers who have their instrument inside their body... or wind players who blow or string players who actually hold their instruments tightly and feel vibrations from it... but it seems to me that what Patrick is lacking in his piano performance he has conquered as a dancer does conquer music... embodying every part of it....
the other thing i know very well now is performance : how to reach your highest level... how to conquer and defeat anxiety... how to avoid setting yourself up for failure...
What I will always disagree strongly with you is when you say that Patrick is not aiming high enough...referring to him mentioning that he is happy to be in the pack.... we all want Patrick to win and skate well... but right now, saying a thing like I will be # 1 at the Olympic games is not going to agree with the body and the mind. It's something that he has very little control on. Judges will do their jobs. Other skaters will do their jobs....the ice could be a puddle like in Boston... too many things, part of his own history and memory will react against such a statement.
As I have explained, why did i reached the ultimate zone in my last show at first, and then after the intermission it went away briefly??? Because with that great conditions, I was playing better than ever lately.... and that shook things up inside... it's important to acknowledge that it's not only the bad performances but the good ones that can make you flicker in and out of the Zone.... we have seen this often with someone landing their first mega quad and collapsing afterwards.
One of the athletes that have impressed me in the last couple years : Meagan Duhamel... I am not sure at all if she uses NLP or whatever, but both times at worlds, she reached an extreme focus to land her elements... at the same time, she lost focus on her choreography rejoicing in the last 30 minutes

haha... can you imagine a musician fist pumping after a Lisztean passage? But I forgive Meagan as she did perform miracles at worlds last year...
But that's the thing... i do believe that Patrick is a work in progress when it comes to dealing with performance anxiety. I actually can see the nerves on his face before he starts skating... It shows how great of a skater he is, to be able to still manage what he does despite the struggles... but I am not yet convinced that he has mastered this skill yet....changing a whole mindset takes time... even for a world champion
Can he get it done for 2018... definitely... but only if he is realistic about how to proceed about it... then... we will see if he can focus on what he is doing and nothing else. I will give you a last parallel... this last concert I played... at the intermission I told my colleague : I am really feeling it today... she said me too... we are really in the moment... and then she said : but I hear so many people coughing... i have to make sure I keep my focus... and i said... i haven't heard a single cough... and that's the thing.... when in the zone, there could be a thousand people coughing at once in the concert hall and I wouldn't hear it... this is the kind of focus I wish for Patrick.