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Solene Mazingue trains at IAM and shared that she was a victim of sexual assault... Some fans even accused Nikolaj of doing this... or anyone at IAM... but she hasn't mentioned who it is at least for now and said to not draw any conclusions for now... it could be any skater really. But right away, some fans were again throwing IAM under the bus without knowing anything.
Solene also said it happened at a competition last year which immediately made me rule Sorenson out because to me it sounded like it was like someone outside IAM otherwise I feel like she would have said it was within her training camp. Mentioning a competition made it sound like some from a different camp.
 
Did Chen/Pedersen get married?
No, at least not as far as the public knows (She's also not 18 yet, so that alone makes it much more unlikely).
They are alluding to the fact that Jeffrey Chen is supposedly under investigation by Safe Sport due to alleged physical violence against one of his former partners (and MIDA for trying to hide the incident). Rumours have it that this partner is Yahli, but all of this is without concrete evidence so far.
 
Maybe I am the only person that cares but I am worried Bella safety here. She was married very young even possibly under age. At this point who cares about marriage fraud that may have taken place here. Usually when someone caught in these cases it is not their first offense. The accused had his perfect victim a young woman who was either too young or too scared to speak out if he was hurting her. I am not saying that anything like that happened here but it would not shock me if it did. Good SafeSport did their job now it is time to make that everybody connected to him is safe most importantly his current partner/wife. I really think that police need to speak with her as soon as possible to ensure her safety. She does have not to say anything as his spouse at least at this point but she may be another one of his victims and needs to informed of her rights and responsibilities in regards to this case.

Judging by the date of the apparent marriage she would have been 18 or 19. She's legally an adult. By that point it's irrelevant whether the adults around her approved or not, they couldn't have stopped her. She's free to make her own choices.


On the flipside if someone's migrated to another country and is dependant on the partner's family for finances/housing, etc then that can also be an unhealthy dynamic going the other way. Especially if that can affect someone's right to stay in the country.

Whatever the truth, I would hope there's someone looking into the concerns you've mentioned. Hopefully she's not at risk.
 
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the point i was making though is that some fans were very aggressive to throw IAM under the bus, when
1) IAM didn't even exist when Nikolaj committed his assault
2)Nikolaj was training in Connecticut when the assault happened.
3) IAM could only do one thing but wait for the investigation to be conducted.

yet here, we have two major training centers with very suspicious behaviour and nobody seems to be throwing them under the bus.. :) except for TSL : )


The assault occurred in 2012 in Connecticut. He did not train in Connecticut at the time of the assault.
Sorensen was already living/training in Montreal with MarieFrance and Patrice. He was one of the first teams they had when they established IAM.
 
The assault occurred in 2012 in Connecticut. He did not train in Connecticut at the time of the assault.
Sorensen was already living/training in Montreal with MarieFrance and Patrice. He was one of the first teams they had when they established IAM.
You misunderstand my post. Nikolaj's coaching staff in Montreal (before IAM was officially founded in 2014) was indeed Marie-France and Patrice. However, after Good's retirement in 2011, he was left without a partner. He did partner up briefly with Vanessa Crone, but that was short-lived. He then was doing try-outs. One of which was early in 2012, with Laurence. It didn't work out. So, why was he in a Connecticut training club? To train? To do a try-out with someone else ? Certainly not for a beach vacation ? So, that's why I am saying that he was training in Connecticut. If he weren't then, he was still not training in Montreal when the assault happened... in Connecticut right ? In any case, Soerensen's case has its own thread, so I am done about this topic in here.

I am just a fan unaware of all the details and that's probably best for my own sanity. The point I was making was simple : how can people put blame on IAM for Nikolaj's assault when 1) The assault didn't even happen in Montreal, 2) IAM was founded in 2014.

I think it's easy to say "IAM " this and that.. or WASA this or that.. or MIDA this or that.... are people willing to accuse Marie-France and Patrice directly for Nikolaj's wrong doings ? I hope it won't go that far, unless they were indeed hiding things they knew, which I personally (and perhaps naively) doubt.
 
Oh, and just to come full circle in Ice Dance terribleness - Little reminder that Annabelle Morozov's own father has a long history of dating his much younger students, going as far as to marry Vasilisa Davankova in the same month she turned 18, who he ended up divorcing before his 3 years younger daughter turned 18 herself.
 
Oh, and just to come full circle in Ice Dance terribleness - Little reminder that Annabelle Morozov's own father has a long history of dating his much younger students, going as far as to marry Vasilisa Davankova in the same month she turned 18, who he ended up divorcing before his 3 years younger daughter turned 18 herself.
As much as her father gives me the creeps, I don’t approve of holding Annabelle responsible for her father’s behavior. Not saying that’s what you’re doing, but I’ve seen other people doing it. I agree that there’s a long history of toxic male behavior in ice dance and pair skating.
 
One thing that would help is the USFS need to stop is this trend of importing foreign men for girls to skate with. The USFS should strongly encourage young male skaters where the quads are simply are not to happen for them to enter the partnered disciplines and schools and rinks should very welcoming to them so we can give a better choice of partners to go with.
 
Judging by the date of the apparent marriage she would have been 18 or 19. She's legally an adult. By that point it's irrelevant whether the adults around her approved or not, they couldn't have stopped her. She's free to make her own choices.


On the flipside if someone's migrated to another country and is dependant on the partner's family for finances/housing, etc then that can also be an unhealthy dynamic going the other way. Especially if that can affect someone's right to stay in the country.

Whatever the truth, I would hope there's someone looking into the concerns you've mentioned. Hopefully she's not at risk.
The United States is a crazy place where this changes from state to state. For example, in Mississippi you can't get married without parental consent until 21. But at 19, she was legally capable of doing it in every other state.
 
One thing that would help is the USFS need to stop is this trend of importing foreign men for girls to skate with. The USFS should strongly encourage young male skaters where the quads are simply are not to happen for them to enter the partnered disciplines and schools and rinks should very welcoming to them so we can give a better choice of partners to go with.
Was that pair skater who took his own life over similar allegations not born and bred on US soil? Men are jerks and women are fools everywhere.

The movement of skaters between countries is necessary because it takes a strike of lightning to find a great partnership even in countries with a great depth in ice dance.

Deal with abuse, swiftly and decisively, not go into some pure racial theory of some people just being born better.
 
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One thing that would help is the USFS need to stop is this trend of importing foreign men for girls to skate with. The USFS should strongly encourage young male skaters where the quads are simply are not to happen for them to enter the partnered disciplines and schools and rinks should very welcoming to them so we can give a better choice of partners to go with.
That's a really unfair judgement of non-American born skaters. Also, I'm saying this won't work for many reasons and it's been proven.

I come from the era when ice dance starting getting popular and US ice dance teams starting winning and placing at competitions and many of us US ladies had no choice but to skate with a foreign born partner, and no they aren't all predators and terrible humans. Many US men do not want to do ice dance and also, getting many of them who have been jumping since they were 4 or 5 to change to ice dance at say 17 isn't going to work in most cases. Ice Dance isn't an easy discipline to switch to per se. You can't just point at a male skater if they're an ice dancer or not and know that it will work for you as a team. It's not that simple and easy.
 
Was that pair skater who took his own life over similar allegations not born and bred on US soil? Men are jerks and women are fools everywhere.

The movement of skaters between countries is necessary because it takes a strike of lightning to find a great partnership even in countries with a great depth in ice dance.

Deal with abuse, swiftly and decisively, not go into some pure racial theory of some people just being born better.
The problem why are these men moving here. I mean we know why the Russian men are moving here but why the others. There are a lot with histories and red flags that noticed in other countries and they just move on. The power imbalance is extreme between women and men. Women are totally at the mercy of men to pick them to be their partners so they can skate. That man can make or break a total career and that needs to change. Yes I know that US born and bred skaters can just as bad but the fact that women have so few choices in who they partner with in the first place is a huge part of the problem. I think anything that could increase the number of young men in these disciplines would be a great help because it could allow a girl to leave a bad partner that is showing red flags without committing career suicide. Think if Bella had more options would she have been al but forced to marry that jerk. Now her young career.ie in taters and she may never get new partner because of what happened which she had no part in. The lack of partners is what leads women to stay in partnerships that are abusive. Brigitte could not leave John without sacrificing her skating career that why she put up with the abuse for years. The coach was ultimately responsible but with so few choices she stayed in partnership that ultimately led to her death years latter from the trauma of it all. That why the gender imbalance needs to be addressed because women are at mercy of who ever wants them and even they can stand them they have to stay for the sake of their careers. Who knows what is happening behind closed doors in many of these partnerships. It scary to think what is happening. More choices for women would help a lot because it could lead to weeding out the bad apples before they damage multiple lives. There needs to be change and it has to start somewhere
 
The problem why are these men moving here. I mean we know why the Russian men are moving here but why the others. There are a lot with histories and red flags that noticed in other countries and they just move on. The power imbalance is extreme between women and men. Women are totally at the mercy of men to pick them to be their partners so they can skate. That man can make or break a total career and that needs to change. Yes I know that US born and bred skaters can just as bad but the fact that women have so few choices in who they partner with in the first place is a huge part of the problem. I think anything that could increase the number of young men in these disciplines would be a great help because it could allow a girl to leave a bad partner that is showing red flags without committing career suicide. Think if Bella had more options would she have been al but forced to marry that jerk. Now her young career.ie in taters and she may never get new partner because of what happened which she had no part in. The lack of partners is what leads women to stay in partnerships that are abusive. Brigitte could not leave John without sacrificing her skating career that why she put up with the abuse for years. The coach was ultimately responsible but with so few choices she stayed in partnership that ultimately led to her death years latter from the trauma of it all. That why the gender imbalance needs to be addressed because women are at mercy of who ever wants them and even they can stand them they have to stay for the sake of their careers. Who knows what is happening behind closed doors in many of these partnerships. It scary to think what is happening. More choices for women would help a lot because it could lead to weeding out the bad apples before they damage multiple lives. There needs to be change and it has to start somewhere
You can't force people do what they don't want to do, and the assumption that a single skater can just 'switch' to ice dance is false. It is about as laughable than the premises of multiple romance novels when they just take a hockey player and put him into a pair with a suffering FS girl and they win Olympics in 3 month. To be an ice dancer, a man needs to want to ice dance, and the younger they are when they start ice dancing together, the better. It is particularly evident in how much better siblings duos do in juniors.

There is a huge number of mixed nationality teams who do fabulous work without anything untoward happening. As for Desyatov, he is nice, tall lad, so the frozen fields of Ukraine it is after deportation.
 
The problem why are these men moving here. I mean we know why the Russian men are moving here but why the others. There are a lot with histories and red flags that noticed in other countries and they just move on. The power imbalance is extreme between women and men. Women are totally at the mercy of men to pick them to be their partners so they can skate. That man can make or break a total career and that needs to change. Yes I know that US born and bred skaters can just as bad but the fact that women have so few choices in who they partner with in the first place is a huge part of the problem. I think anything that could increase the number of young men in these disciplines would be a great help because it could allow a girl to leave a bad partner that is showing red flags without committing career suicide. Think if Bella had more options would she have been al but forced to marry that jerk. Now her young career.ie in taters and she may never get new partner because of what happened which she had no part in. The lack of partners is what leads women to stay in partnerships that are abusive. Brigitte could not leave John without sacrificing her skating career that why she put up with the abuse for years. The coach was ultimately responsible but with so few choices she stayed in partnership that ultimately led to her death years latter from the trauma of it all. That why the gender imbalance needs to be addressed because women are at mercy of who ever wants them and even they can stand them they have to stay for the sake of their careers. Who knows what is happening behind closed doors in many of these partnerships. It scary to think what is happening. More choices for women would help a lot because it could lead to weeding out the bad apples before they damage multiple lives. There needs to be change and it has to start somewhere
What did he do exactly? Why is he a jerk? Poor Bella. There are many girls who would not do what she did does nto matter how important thier career to them.
 
my point is not that at all... my point is that some fans are so eager to criticize some coaching staff and not others.
You obviously haven't seen the same social media I have. The reaction to this one - and the coaching team involved - has been almost medieval.

What an interesting time for something like this to happen. I wouldn't be surprised if they're just trying to get rid of him in a way that no one would mind.
Who is this 'they'? As far as anyone in US skating is concerned, I cannot see that a grubby probably-sex scandal just before Skate America, at a time the fed is in a mess (that KnC!) and financially obviously struggling, would not be a disaster.
 
Women are totally at the mercy of men to pick them to be their partners so they can skate. That man can make or break a total career and that needs to change.
If solo ice dance takes off, maybe it will.

Think if Bella had more options would she have been al but forced to marry that jerk.
We don't know that she was 'forced'.
 
You obviously haven't seen the same social media I have. The reaction to this one - and the coaching team involved - has been almost medieval.
i don't hang out on social media. i only always comment on things I have seen here :) sometimes on facebook... but don't look for me on these nasty other sites ;) so no... i saw nothing here of the sort that i have seen a little while ago about IAM except for one very sensible post by @Jumping_Bean in this same thread who was calling it the way it appears to be, without going overboard.
 
Maybe I am the only person that cares but I am worried about Bella safety here. She was married very young even possibly under age. At this point who cares about marriage fraud that may have taken place here. Usually when someone caught in these cases it is not their first offense. The accused had his perfect victim a young woman who was either too young or too scared to speak out if he was hurting her. I am not saying that anything like that happened here but it would not shock me if it did. Good SafeSport did their job now it is time to make that everybody connected to him is safe most importantly his current partner/wife. I really think that police need to speak with her as soon as possible to ensure her safety. She does have not to say anything as his spouse at least at this point but she may be another one of his victims and needs to informed of her rights and responsibilities in regards to this case.
What about Isabella's parents? I think they must be aware of the situation
 
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