Anyone could help out Loena. All you had to do was hear what was going on to help out. The same is true for Deniss. Anyone can hit the funding page without tattooing the word "fan "on their buttocks in red ink. lol. As for Shoma, the person who I noticed checking on him at Grenoble was Raf.
That's actually what I meant from the examples I put here.
Anyone can do something good for the skaters regardless of whether you identify as a fan or not.
Anyone can do good. It's up to the skater themselves and the team that they have, to do what they can.
Shoma's example sticks with me because it really was everything happening at once. Yes, he had dedicated fans travelling to support him in that competition, but there were also casual audience, people who went to the GP because it was affordable and a nice way to spend the day and didn't know Shoma at all, who joined in the applause and actually comfort Shoma's fans who were sad. But Shoma had to do the rest himself- yes the very vocal support at the right time helped him realize that he wanted to continue skating, but he had to make the calls- he had to get himself to a place where he can do that, and he did that. No fans can help with that. Shoma doesn't even listen to his fans most of the time. But the one time he needed their support, it counted.
And well- I'm not a Piper/Paul dedicated superfan. I barely post about them, I don't interact with them on social media as a fan, and most of the time I chatted about their skating is with my friend. But we don't have to be a Piper/Paul dedicated superfan who are inspired by who they are as people, to share their good skating. That their team found it and found happiness in seeing the positive feedback, and inspiration enough to choose it as their competitive program, that's on them to decide. I know other fans of theirs didn't like that they chose that program, and some fans gave negative comments when it's skated in competitions. But that's their decision.
I think the moment a fan thinks they have the
responsibility to shape a competitive skater's career, in any way or form, that's where everything goes awry. A skater has their own life, a fan has their own life. If a fan can help, through support, or through letters, through financial support, that should be made by the fan with considerations of their own life. And especially in competitions, a fan's support cannot stand in as the replacement of the judges, the technical panel, or the coaches. These are sportsmen and sportswomen who choose to do this judged sport with its flaws and subjectivity- they know the stakes better for them than a fan can ever do.
Personally as a fan, I
don't have the means to donate to every gofundme or request for financial support I see. I have my own life. I have to draw the boundaries, I support the skaters to express themselves on competition ice, but I am not responsible for the continuity of the careers of skaters I find entertaining or lovely to watch. Even with my favorites who turned professional, I am not responsible for their success in the entertainment industry. They have to make their own way out there, and I have to make my own way here.
That's the thing that we can do, whether we identify as a fan or not. Try to do good while enjoying the sport and being in the community. Because we just don't know. Maybe our good deed is the thing that decides a turn in their career. Maybe it's just a good deed. There is no way to know.