I'm not sure what grown adults calling a skater's skating "ugly" and "unpleasant" on the internet has to do with the "real world".......
In real adult life if someone gets in my face with a four letter word I am entirely capable of responding and returning the favor. That isn't something a 16 year old in that environment can do. Turn up the heat without reason and I'll break out the fire extinguisher.
Of course it does, how one behaves in real life is what we see people post on the internet. In which, from what I've read on this forum, its rather mild comparatively. Including comments abt athletes performances.
In REAL life, I have heard audiences shout to the athlete who just lost his match "Go back home! Dont play anymore" or "You're a disgrace to the country!!"
"Ugly" ,"Unpleasant" is nothing compared to what's said in real life to an athlete, seriously.
I'm refering mainly to the Gracie Gold issue, she's 23. Some fans are acting like she's a glass ice princess that's so fragile she'll shatter to 1,000 pieces anytime.
Even if its 15, 16 year old athlete, if they compete unprepared as in finish last & not being able to complete beginner level elements. It has happened - at an International event. Yes, they got critised, very publically. Along with the wisdom of the coach & sports association for sending her.
Did it deter the althete? No, they soldiered on.
Athletes are mentally tough, they have to be to compete at International level.
In real working life, the customer is always right, even when the customer is dead wrong. Try doing what you say you'll do, in my country : no 1) immediately get fired by my boss.
If you fire extinguisher comparison means physical response,have a police report out on me and have to pay medical fees. AND, being blacklisted from being hired in the same line of work within that state.