If we take into account which was performed first in history, that would suggest that 3Lutz is easier the 3flip for both men and women, but I don't think anyone is making that argument. Or that loop was easier than toe loop even though Button did it first.
That is quite interesting, Brandon Mroz is in the record book with a quad Lutz, and Michael Weiss came close a couple if times, but no quad loop or quad flip yet.
Maybe some jumps are harder to learn in the first place, but once you get them adding another rotation is not as hard as it is for some other jumps. Or maybe training and coaching methods take time to catch up with the cutting edge, so that what is easier or harder for the pioneer might not be the same as what is easier of harder for "everybody" later on.
Yes, I am aware of how program components are factored differently in different disciplines. But I'm not sure that what you say follows from this actually follows. The value of technical elements for women is exaggerated in the way you say only when looking at single elements, one at a time. But since women are limited relative to men in how many elements they may perform and in how long they may skate, technical elements are not worth more for them overall relative to men. (In fact, isn't that the very point of factoring the program components?)
I think the ideal theoretic ratios are starting to be thrown off by all the men doing quads, without a corresponding increase in technical difficulty on the ladies' side.
Just to take an example, I looked at the top ten from Four Continents. Granted, there was quite a variation on the men's side, because the top two, Sawyer and Aaron had huge TES and not much PCS, while Takahashi had the reverse, and also Hanyu's TES wasn't as high as expected. But anyway...
Men
Average TES = 74, average PCS 75 (pretty much perfect)
Ladies
Average TES = 55, average PCS = 58 (not too bad)
Per cent increase of men's scores over ladies' (it should be 25% higher, according to the 1,6 versus 2.0 multiplier rule)
TES: Men are 34% higher than ladies. PCS (including multiplier): Men are 29% higher. Without multiplier men are 4% higher)
Ladies need get those triple-triples cranking. :yes: